On the wine table, the leader kept urging me to drink. How can I politely refuse?

Not long ago, Xiao Lin attended a dinner party and drove to avoid drinking. At the dinner party, Xiao Lin replaced wine with tea, and others didn't embarrass him. After three rounds of drinking, a leader got drunk and had to propose a toast to Kobayashi. Kobayashi quickly explained, "I'm driving." The leader's eyes were red. He stared at Xiao Lin and said with a big tongue, "Who asked you to drive here? The purpose is to avoid drinking. I will call a driver for you. "

Kobayashi added, "I am allergic to drinking, and I feel uncomfortable after drinking it." The leader went back. "You will feel uncomfortable if you drink it, but I will feel uncomfortable if I drink it?" Kobayashi explained: "I really can't do it." The leader pressed hard, "Is your life more expensive than mine?" Xiao Lin was tongue-tied and had nothing to say. The leader took the opportunity to fill Kobayashi with wine. "Is it so difficult for you to drink a glass of wine? Do you look down on me? "

At this point, Kobayashi had no choice but to kill this cup of white wine, and his stomach turned over and he almost spit it out. Although the wine culture is gradually "fading" and the new generation of young people do not agree with the dinner culture, in some areas, especially in the north, the dinner wine field is still a very important carrier. For newcomers in the workplace, it is hard to escape when it comes to persuasion.

Relatives and friends drink, that's called drinking. Business entertainment, that's called work. Wine field culture is an extension of workplace rules. Subordinates dare to drink, which is a kind of "warlord" and make a heroic gesture of "immortality". "I can give up my life to respect you, which is enough loyalty." Some leaders don't like drinking either, and enjoy the feeling that their subordinates are completely obedient.

There are five popular reasons for refusing to drink in the bar: driving, blushing (claiming to be allergic to drinking), taking medicine, keeping silent (keeping a low profile and not attracting attention) and braiding (girls). It is basically ineffective now, but it is summarized as "five can't be let go". So, is there an ultimate refusal to drink? At the dinner, the leader advised me to drink, not to say "I can't drink", not to mention the above five reasons. Experts have used the ultimate trick: four ways of refusing to drink, which are particularly useful.

One of the ultimate refusals: I drive late.

If there are many leaders on the wine table and some leaders urge you to drink, you can vaguely say, "Sorry, leader, I'll use tea instead of wine, and I'll drive later." Never say "you are driving", because you are making a mistake on your own initiative (deliberately not drinking). You said "I'll drive later", implying that "you might help a leader drive and send him home." In general, it is difficult for the other party to verify your words. Several leaders were present, and he didn't know which leader asked you to help him drive. True or false, just muddle through.

Second, the ultimate abstinence. Second: I'm going to have a baby.

After letting go of the second child, people of any age dare to say "I want a second child", so the junior refused to drink. The leader stared at you and advised you to drink. You quietly said to him, "Leader, we are going to have a second child. For the sake of sowing quality, we don't touch alcohol. " Under normal circumstances, leaders can understand, hahaha smiled, "I hope the project must be supported, so you can use tea instead."

The third ultimate refusal to drink: I may have an accident if I drink it.

The leader advised me to drink, and you said, "I'm allergic, I'm uncomfortable drinking, and my stomach is not good." The leader also asked you, "Your body is long, and my body is made of iron?" Explain that leaders don't care about "health", and you still can't bear "health"? Therefore, don't simply say that you can't drink, but shift the "responsibility". You take out the cephalosporin and say, "I ate cephalosporin." If something happens, everyone here will be involved. " Now everyone knows that someone had an accident on the wine table, and everyone can't escape the responsibility. You can't always talk about taking cephalosporins. Next time, you can say, "I was bitten by a dog and vaccinated." The core of this refusal to drink is that if you drink it, something will happen, everyone will be involved, and no one will dare to persuade you.