A homely mother has raised a little girl who loves beauty. How can a 7-year-old girl's clothing style be achieved?

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As we all know, as a The most down-to-earth parenting blogger in the industry, Orange I have basically given up on maintaining my appearance. In the beginning, it was because I was too tired to take care of the children and had no time to think about it. But after a few years of laziness, my dressing skills, which were not very good in the first place, became even more rusty and forgotten. In addition, I didn’t have to go to work formally to meet people, and I didn’t have to do it myself. If you like these, you have no motivation to pick them up. Nowadays, even if I want to dress myself up, I can't do it anymore. I only dare to wear the safest, most basic and most error-free styles and colors, and just don't look weird and eye-catching. Of course, the end result is to be as earthy as possible.

Since I don’t know how to dress myself up, I certainly don’t know how to dress up my children either. At first I would buy some cute children’s clothes of my dreams and want to play dress-up games for my children, but it didn’t look like much. The wrong clothes never achieve the desired effect when worn on my children. Instead, they look a bit awkward and strange. I wonder if my clothes are too poor or their temperaments are too tricky for me to control?

On the one hand, I don’t have much confidence in my own aesthetics, and on the other hand, children start to pick and choose clothes after the age of three, so I simply don’t get involved in this matter and just let them do it. Now that I have the power to dress, I buy clothes according to my children’s preferences and let them go into their rooms to match their clothes every day. I basically don’t care. Although I often create many weird looks that are aesthetically unacceptable, at least I don’t have to worry!

If someone asks me, why do I let my children dress like this? I can blame it all on them: Oh, our kids are so stubborn, I can’t help it if they have to dress like this!

Well, that’s a perfect reason.

Guoguo was a tomboy before she was two and a half years old. She wished she could dress the same as her brother. I thought she would also inherit her mother’s gene of not liking beauty. Unexpectedly, after she was two and a half years old, she discovered that she was a girl and different from her brother. Her temperament changed drastically overnight, and she suddenly became obsessed with beauty. One of her daily pleasures was to change clothes, take pictures in the mirror, and wear pigtails, hairpins, and jewelry. , vowing to be an exquisite little princess.

Her strategy for choosing clothes at the beginning was very simple and straightforward: first, it should be pink, and second, it should be shiny!

It is conceivable that for a while she made herself look like a large pink glitter ball

After a while, she finally became less obsessed with pink and started to like it crazily again. The pony is a unicorn, so I want to be a unicorn all over my body

Unicorn hat, clothes and pants

Unicorn bag and skirt

After a while, the unicorn fever subsided a little, and I started collecting rainbow themes again

However, since I was six years old, the little girl has become good at clothes, and sometimes she can make something that makes me feel happy. A bright look

The clothes she buys are becoming more and more personalized, and she often buys styles and colors that I would never consider.

When she bought this skirt, I thought the color It’s weird, it doesn’t feel easy to match. I didn’t expect that she can match this skirt with anything.

It seems to go well with everything...

She still has to buy two pairs that look shabby. I complained a lot about the denim shorts when I bought them, but I didn’t expect them to fit her quite well

My old mother has never been so avant-garde as to wear denim shorts in her life, and children can easily break through them.

By the way, she also particularly loves this way of dressing with great contrast between the upper body and lower body

The upper body is very warm and the lower body is very cool

The upper body is very loose and the lower body is very cool Personally-fitting

Don't laugh at me. Maybe this is not a superb skill, but at least it is beyond my imagination.

This spring, when the seasons changed, I specifically wanted to see how well she could pick out clothes, so I took her to a children's clothing store and let her pick whatever she wanted. I didn't give any advice at all. After picking it up and going home, I asked him to match it and wear it himself

I don’t know what everyone thinks, but I think it exceeded my expectations. Although it is a bit strange, it has a different kind of freshness and escape.

I think even if I were to dress her up, she wouldn’t look better than this, it would be more boring! In my impression, a girl of this size should be wearing cute lace bows and the like. In fact, these are some stereotypes. Who said that little girls must be cute? It’s pretty cool to have a casual, sporty, fresh look like Guoguo’s.

In fact, Guomei is much better than me. She knows what she likes to wear and what she is suitable to wear at the age of 7, and she has the courage to wear her own style. I could not achieve this level at the age of 17.

I have complained before about naughty children who choose clothes that are too eye-catching and weird, which makes people die of aesthetics. But I also believe that this is the process of children learning to dress and find their own favorite style. As long as they endure that eye-catching period, the children will eventually surprise me!

So, what are you waiting for? Let your children have the power to dress as soon as possible and let them decide what to wear. This will save them a lot of entanglements and conflicts, and they will also be able to learn how to dress early. The ability to match clothes, what a best of both worlds!

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I have enough energy!