Good words to praise a 40-year-old woman, what is the word of praise you most want to hear?

She was born in 1980 and will be forty years old in 2020. Forty is an age that cannot be reached. Some of the children in the store call her aunt, and some call her mother (a special name for children in Yangzhou when they are learning to speak, meaning aunt). Three years ago, there was a mother who asked her children to call her "aunt". Her "grandma's". I guess this mother has too much of a sense of superiority over her early marriage and early childbearing.

She always feels uncomfortable being called "grandma". Is she really that old? She immediately criticized the other person, "I'm 13 years older than you. If you call me auntie, why don't you let your three-year-old daughter call my eight-year-old daughter auntie? People will think your daughter is a fool or was taught by a fool." Bao Ma was silent.

She was only 13 years older than the other person. She was only 37 years old at the time, which was also very young. Depending on the age at which someone has children early or the seniority of a family with many children, 37-year-old can indeed be a grandmother. But under normal circumstances, isn’t this age too early? Aren't you old? You laugh at women who are older than you, what is your quality? Later, she thought about it and realized that the other person was jealous. He was jealous that she was 24 years old and looked older, uglier, and fatter than a 37-year-old woman. As a result, she smiled at Bao's mother with mockery in her eyes.

The mother in the store always praises "you are so beautiful", "ah, you have lost weight recently", "ah, you are getting more and more beautiful". Indeed, when you are young, you need double eyelids, a face with oval seeds, and a high nose bridge...

As you get older, the requirements are very simple, as long as you are young. When she was forty years old, the most beautiful compliment she felt was "You look so young." She was so happy when she heard "You're So Beautiful" when she was younger, but she's still beautiful now, but it's clear that "young" excites her more than "beautiful." Being old is much scarier than being ugly!

Don’t simply think that old and ugly can be equated. There are two young women, one is beautiful and the other is average, but when they get older, it is very likely that the average looking one will be more beautiful than the beautiful one when she was young. This kind of comparison is just a horizontal comparison between two people. From a vertical perspective, old people are not beautiful anyway, they become ugly anyway, and one old person will ruin everything.

Women are most afraid of aging, and aging has almost nothing to do with beauty. Whether it is a congenital beauty or an acquired beauty, the preservation time is about ten years, and the more beautiful it is, the harder it is to preserve it. There will definitely be a lot of complaints under the news that "XXX star looks like a girl at 40". Only "XXX star ages gracefully" will get a lot of praise, because it confirms the main premise that she is old.

The general public’s complaints, sarcasm and ridicule towards middle-aged female celebrities show that people’s understanding of women is still based on appearance and male aesthetics, and almost no men like older women. People are not tolerant of the natural phenomenon of aging. Men always like young people, and young women cannot feel their loneliness after more than ten years. In the marriage market, age always comes before looks.

Therefore, the top priority for young girls is not to become beautiful, but to fight against aging. Everyone has to get older, delaying aging and resisting aging is more meaningful than becoming beautiful. What do you need to pay attention to when fighting aging:

1. The body must be healthy.

No matter you are fat or thin, health is the most important. Any weight loss at the expense of health will make you beautiful. Good health requires adequate nutrition, adequate sleep and moderate exercise. A healthy body ensures normal nutrition and metabolism, so there will be no accumulation of fat and pigmentation, and the face will be rosy and elastic.

2. Be in a good mood.

People's emotions will affect a person's sleep, facial expression, appetite, and then affect your body function and metabolism, affecting your health and beauty.

3. Facial care

The most obvious sign of aging comes from the face, so facial care is very important. Personally, I think the main thing to pay attention to is cleansing, moisturizing and sun protection. Once these three are done, the care is almost done.

4. Don’t do subtraction in medical beauty.

Human aging is based on loss of collagen, water loss, muscle atrophy, and calcium loss... Therefore, face slimming, bone grinding, etc. should be done less, which is not conducive to anti-aging.

Fillers such as hyaluronic acid, fat fillers, thread carving, etc. may have some effect on anti-aging. I have not done any research on the dangers, so I dare not make any claims.

"If you take care of yourself, you will look the same, if you don't take care of it, you will look old." This is often said, but maintenance is really not limited to cosmetics. The effect of cosmetics is minimal. Maintenance is the maintenance of the entire body from the inside out.