Are people who are unwilling to give in relationships necessarily selfish?

Selfishness has many manifestations, but selfishness in love is usually just asking for nothing, not wanting to give, or it’s not my fault that it’s so different. If you make me angry, just break up...

So , please ask what will be the consequences of falling in love with such a person. Whether you continue to feel tired, feel tired including physical fatigue, or break up because you can't stand it and get angry depends on the degree of tolerance.

However, the result is obvious, it is impossible to fall!

I suggest you not to fall in love with a selfish person. It's just self-inflicted. If there is something you can't think of, you need to abuse yourself like this. If you meet such a person, please let go.

01So, what exactly does a selfish person look like in love?

"So tired. I can't stand it anymore."

"Yeah"

"Do you love me too? Please love me as I love you . But at least don’t ignore me.”

“But I am.”

1. People are always self-centered

"I can love you more than myself, but you only love yourself. You told me. My love is very humble and has no value."

He doesn’t see you, only himself. No matter how much you pay, he can't remember it. I just think you do this for granted.

Even if you make countless concessions for him and tolerate all excuses such as being late and tired, you will not make him thank you.

They value their own thoughts and feelings, but I'm sorry, your thoughts and feelings are not within the scope of his thoughts.

Selfish people are very possessive, hoping that the other person will always be theirs, and want to control the other person according to their own will.

Many people will pay attention to whether their girlfriend/boyfriend communicates with the opposite sex when they are in love. If you communicate too much, you will get angry and bring the relationship between the two people to a freezing point.

For example, when you are with your partner, you want to know all of his/her secrets.

I think two people must be honest. There must be complete transparency with each other. We can look at each other's phones, diaries, etc. as a matter of course. No privacy.

In addition, no matter where the other party is doing, they need to report one by one, and the other party must reply to the information posted within a short time. Otherwise, it will be judged that the other party does not value you.

3. "I'm right, don't make any sense to me."

A selfish person never thinks that she has done anything, and cannot listen to what you say. There is something wrong in her eyes, she blames everything on you, and does not reflect on herself. She is right, but I think you are wrong.

They believe that the heart is higher than the sky, and admitting mistakes is a sign of weakness, so there is no admitting mistakes in their dictionary, and there is no word "sorry" in their dictionary.

4. Do not consider other people’s feelings when doing things. Nor does he take the initiative to take on anything. When two people go out to eat, even if they order something they like, they may not care about the other person or even know what they like.

You can't take care of others. When you have difficulties, you hope that the other party will solve them, or you can just stand by and don't want to get confused by the tea.

For example, some men think that housework is women’s job. After you finish your dinner, leave the leftovers for him to clean up. No matter how messy your home is, I won't help you. Although you can enjoy paying with peace of mind, you can't see your hard work.

02 Don’t fall in love with selfish people

In fact, in relationships, selfish people are easy to judge. Selfish people think of themselves first, express your thoughts.

When he needs you, you must appear. When you need him, you always get no reply from him.

It’s really tiring to be with selfish people. His sentences are all "I think", "I think" and "I think", and every topic must be centered on himself.

However, as long as you talk about yourself, he will immediately start to perfunctory while playing with his mobile phone;

The date between the two of you has always only depended on his own mood. . "Tired", "sleepy" and "uncomfortable" can be used as reasons to let you go.

You can’t feel any difference because he has you, and you can’t find any decent memories about you in his memory

His feelings will not Any disturbance due to your feelings...

The saddest thing in a relationship is that he is still him, but you are no longer you. When your eyes are full of him, he can only see himself in your eyes.

People are selfish, this is nature.

However, in love, egoism is a bad language.

You are already two people. Whatever you do must be for the sake of the other person. If you don’t want to do anything, ask the other person to do it too.

You have to think about the other person. Do everything double. Because you enjoy the love that the other person brings to you, you have an obligation to care about the other person's mood.

A selfish man will fall in love with you because of the little details in his life with you, and will erode you little by little. The gradual disappointment will replace the original love and become a process of accumulation of disappointment. Finally chose to leave.