Senior kindergarten teachers admit that sometimes it is easy to "ruin" a child, that is, pick him up from school later.

"When children go to kindergarten, parents will be free." I'm afraid it's parents whose children haven't gone to kindergarten yet! Children are in kindergarten, and we are not free. Many mothers still can't find suitable jobs after their children go to kindergarten, because kindergarten is too early to finish school. Generally, kindergartens finish school at 4: 30, so it is estimated that few employers finish work at 4: 30.

Some parents also think that it is not enough to pick up the children later. Anyway, the parents can't go, so the teacher will look after the children. The children are fine, there is nothing to worry about.

Is it really okay to pick up the children at the party? Guess what the child thinks in his heart? Most children are anxious when they wait for their parents to pick them up at the kindergarten gate. If you ask at this time, "Why haven't mom and dad come to pick you up?" He will definitely say, "My mother doesn't want me ..." The child will probably cry again.

My friend, who has worked in kindergarten for more than ten years, is an experienced kindergarten teacher. She once hit the nail on the head and said, "Sometimes it is really easy to destroy a child, that is, to pick him up from school late and give him the illusion of being abandoned."

Xixi's parents are very busy at work and often pick up their children when they have time. Sometimes both of them have no time, so they can only call the teacher and ask him to help take care of the children for a while. At first, Xixi was not very resistant to going to kindergarten, but she always lost her temper when she went to kindergarten in the morning.

Mother thinks he had a problem with his children in kindergarten. Later, the teacher said that the child didn't want to come to kindergarten because his mother was always the last to pick him up. He thinks the children are laughing at him.

When Xixi goes to kindergarten every day, she will say to her mother, "Mom, you are the first to pick me up." However, mom never came to pick him up first. Later, he said to his mother, "Mom, come and pick me up early." Mother always comes to pick him up late. Gradually, Xixi stopped telling her mother. He is always alone at the kindergarten gate, waiting for his mother gloomily.

The senior kindergarten teacher said: The kindergarten finishes school early, and mom and dad do have some difficulties. However, parents still have to overcome difficulties for their children. When kindergarten is over, they should try to pick up their children on time.

Because mom and dad always bring their children home late, which does a lot of harm. Parents can "ruin the baby" without knowing it!

A child who always picks up late feels insecure.

Children in kindergartens are naturally uncomfortable when they enter a strange environment for the first time and are with unfamiliar people in a strange environment. When the kindergarten is out of school, it is the happiest moment for children to jump into their parents' arms happily. If all the other children are picked up and the children wait at the door alone, the waiting process is very long.

Moreover, it is easy for children to think, is it because mom and dad don't want me, is it because I did something wrong and my mother is punishing me? The feeling of loneliness and fear makes children have great fear, and they will also have resistance to going to kindergarten.

B mom and dad always pick up their children late, which makes them lose confidence.

There will be a lot of comparisons between children, and some children will always show off to other children: my parents will pick me up first. Some children are always the last to leave, so they are easily laughed at by other children and their self-confidence will be hit. Some children, when laughed at by others, will have a bad temper and will hit people to vent their inner anger.

C mother picked up the child late, making the child lose the concept of time.

Some mothers often say that you will be late if you dawdle so much. Why don't you act quickly? Children have a poor sense of time, so we need a little training. However, if we adults always fail to pick up our children from school on time, it is also a behavior habit that destroys children's concept of time. Parents should set a good example for their children, send them to school on time and do whatever they want.

D mother often picks up her children late, which makes it easy for teachers to have opinions on their children.

It's reassuring to hand over the children to the kindergarten, but when the kindergarten is over, the teacher will also get off work. We have our own things, please give them to the teacher. If the teacher has children to take care of, who should we ask to take care of them?

If parents always fail to pick up their children on time, it is equivalent to always asking teachers to work overtime, and there is still no overtime pay. Even if the teacher says nothing, they will certainly feel uncomfortable. Therefore, parents often pick up their children late, which is not good for dealing with the relationship with teachers.

It is really difficult for parents to work and take care of their children at the same time. But no matter what the situation is, we must find a way to overcome it. After all, the growth of children is more important.