It is said that Bo Huang's EQ is very high. How high is it?

The most obvious performance is that Bo Huang appeared on the program "Little S", which is notoriously difficult. Many people have been exposed to her show, but Bo Huang not only handled it with ease, but also made Xiao S laugh and cry, which can be said to be the perfect embodiment of her high EQ.

In the program, Xiao S raised a difficult question: "If Lin Chi-ling and I fall into the water at the same time, who will you save first?" As we all know, this is usually the husband's reply to his wife's proposition: "The daughter-in-law and mother fell into the water at the same time. Who do you save first?" This puts many men in a dilemma. I didn't expect Bo Huang to solve it easily: "Saving is of course saving you, so it must be saving you first." Speaking of this, Xiao S was quite happy, but Bo Huang changed the subject. "Because Lin Chi-ling is tall, no one can drown her", suggesting that Xiao S is short and directly "cries" Xiao S, but Bo Huang added; "But you have a good figure ratio", which means that you don't forget to make up for Xiao S while teasing her.

Small S unwilling, use deadly assassin's mace to let Bo Huang scold yourself. This kind of problem would be embarrassing if he couldn't control the scale a little in the program. Xiao S asked, "Do you need to train me?" At first, Bo Huang obviously didn't expect Xiao S to make such a tough request. Bo Huang replied, "Scold you should not need self-cultivation". It is estimated that Bo Huang's brain has started to turn rapidly at this moment. Bo Huang's scolding is very clever. He didn't directly say how Xiao S was, but used Lin Chi-ling as a shield. He replied to Xiao S like this: "You compare with Lin Chi-ling every day, which is a joke in itself. What can you compare with others in terms of appearance, figure and knowledge? You embarrass people every day on every program, and people once said you were bad? " Although I know that it is deliberate ridicule, Xiao S has a heart that wants to cry: "Is it necessary to be so realistic to speak?" Do you think I lost Lin Chi-ling? " Bo Huang mended the knife: "No, you are better than her in this respect." Huang Bo really said that Xiao S was crying, and she was ashamed. Frankly speaking, this program can only be recorded here, and I am so sad.

In this program, Bo Huang's high EQ is undoubtedly revealed, which not only skillfully solves every possible embarrassing problem, but also gives a humorous response. It can be said that the program has achieved very good results because of Huang Bo's super emotional intelligence performance.

Emotional intelligence is not measured by what degree, but by how a person can solve the embarrassment or make things difficult for others on special occasions, neither embarrassing himself nor the people present, giving no respect to others nor embarrassing himself.

Bo Huang can be regarded as a representative figure who was born at the grassroots level and went to the film emperor. Without outstanding face value and entertainment resources to support his acting career, then he can win the best actor, which must have different characteristics from ordinary people. Otherwise, it is impossible to stand out from many prosperous and beautiful entertainment circles and win the championship in one fell swoop.

Bo Huang was a late bloomer, worked as a singer, formed a band, worked as a dance coach and worked as a voice-over. All these made him learn more knowledge and experience in film and television, which played an important role in his later development of performing arts.

To say that Bo Huang's emotional intelligence is high, you can simply give a few examples:

1, Bo Huang was invited to participate in "Lu Yu You Yue", and Lu Yu once asked Bo Huang, "I heard that you are very angry now?" If you say that you are angry, you are a bit pretentious; If it is not hot, inviting people who are not hot is to belittle the program group, which is quite difficult. However, Bo Huang's sentence "Everyone can come to Lu Yu for a date. Can you not be angry?" I have to admire that this sentence not only avoids being too high, but also shows the fiery degree of the program group, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone;

2. Once participated in The Dating between Lu and Yu with Guan Hu and Fish Leong. When talking about their family life, they talked in depth. Guan Hu said: "People will become trivial if they quarrel over trifles every day." At this time, everyone felt that the atmosphere was a little wrong. Bo Huang said, "If it were me, I would say that I am a person who does great things and washes dishes? Never! " A humorous remark easily dissolved the atmosphere, and the whole studio quickly turned yellow, with applause and laughter from time to time. This Yang did not let the scene ice, but also eased the embarrassment of the host and guests;

3. In Bo Huang's "Life I yearn for", Huang Lei once asked Bo Huang why he cut the scenes of Sun and Xu zhēng. Bo Huang jokingly said: He plays the whole role better than the hero, so why did you keep him? A word not only saved the actor's face, but also answered the question, which was impeccable. Of course, Bo Huang, Sun and Xu Zheming are good friends, and they often play jokes on each other.

So I don't think a person's emotional intelligence level can be said to be high. As long as we give others a face in daily life and work, or give others a step down, then it is high emotional intelligence; What makes the scene awkward is the low emotional intelligence. They all say they should stay out of it so that we can meet again in the future.

High EQ means knowing the world. Bo Huang was a talented artist, but he was killed on the way. For a time, he was followed by many people. Someone once said that if the entertainment circle wants to rank the three people with the highest EQ, Bo Huang must be among them. High emotional intelligence does not mean glib and tactless, but a moral standard that has gone through many vicissitudes. Once again, when Lu Yu interviewed him, he asked him, "Do you think you are quite angry now?" Bo Huang said, "You have an appointment with Luyu, can you not be hot? In one sentence, Lu Yu and the program collapsed. While praising himself, the watertight answer confirmed the full emotional intelligence. After filming "10 1 proposal", Lin Chi-ling repeatedly said that Bo Huang was her ideal candidate, and Bo Huang also responded on many occasions that Lin Chi-ling was very trustworthy. The popularity of stars is very simple. If it weren't for its face value, talent and the operation of brokerage companies, it would have been popular all over the country. Bo Huang is the annotation of this sentence. Good-looking people will be replaced by better-looking people sooner or later, but the irreplaceable colors are talent and emotional intelligence. We believe that Bo Huang will go further and further in the future film and television circle, because talent and emotional intelligence are his eternal preservatives.

Bo Huang's high EQ should be recognized by everyone.

For example, Ma Yun asked Bo Huang, "What do you think of my face value?" Bo Huang replied "We are not worse than each other", which not only didn't offend Ma Yun, but also improved his level.

When Bo Huang was invited to be the guest of the 20 13 Golden Horse Award, Zheng Yuling said: I haven't hosted the Golden Horse Award for five years, but I'm dressed very grand. Everyone is like this. You see, Andy Lau and Tony Leung Chiu Wai are all dressed up. Why are you here in pajamas?

Bo Huang: Yes, because they are all guests. When the guests came, of course, they were all dressed up. You haven't been here for five years. I have made the Golden Horse Awards stage my home. I have been here for five years. Of course, I have to dress more comfortably at home, right? All of a sudden, the audience cheered. Andy Lau couldn't admire it!

Cai Kangyong saw his partner being scolded and said, "Bo Huang, this is my home, not yours." . Bo Huang: You're not fighting alone. You brought a horse. I usually see people riding horses, and it's the first time I see people riding horses. This sentence is even more refueling!

Bo Huang, 45, is a famous actor. His face value is not high, but his acting skills are first-class, which is called "box office guarantee". One of the main reasons why people like him is that his exaggerated body movements during the performance are very funny and enjoyable. As a result, some people praised him, but at the same time they teased him with bad taste that he was "an ugly person in power." However, Bo Huang, who is humorous, can always face the negative comments of these people and become a classic. It can be said that his emotional intelligence and wisdom are not generally high.

Sadly, the reason why Bo Huang has such high improvisation ability and wisdom is because he was tempered from countless grievances and humbleness. In addition, he used to be a singer, hosted a program and choreographed a dance. These rich life experiences have brought him enough knowledge accumulation to make his talent surpass ordinary people.

I remember Ma Yun once met Bo Huang and asked him: Can you speak for me for free? In fact, this question is a joke. But if the answer is not good, it will also leave the impression of "not smart". And Bo Huang said tactfully, "As long as you give me a car". Ma Yun was stunned and asked him "what car". Bo Huang smiled and said, Help me empty my shopping cart. After that, even Ma Yun smiled and brought up the topic perfectly, and neither side was embarrassed.

This year's Golden Rooster Award, the program group invited Bo Huang and Deng Chao as the hosts of the closing ceremony, and Bo Huang's opening remarks were well received by everyone. He told the audience that Deng Chao and I were invited to award the prize because the director told me that only you two were not nominated, and everyone else was busy preparing the acceptance speech. His answer made everyone laugh and the atmosphere was relaxed. Netizens also praised his humorous hosting style. And these words are precisely the performance of his high emotional intelligence, which makes people admire.

There are actually many such examples. On another occasion, Bo Huang met an enthusiastic fan at the airport. He patted Bo Huang on the shoulder and said, "I like a movie you played with Andy Lau." I immediately understood that the other party regarded him as a king. But he didn't reveal it. Finally, when his fans asked for his autograph, he signed the word "Wang" decisively. In fact, his doing this is also a performance of high emotional intelligence, which has neither swept the fans' interest nor avoided his own embarrassment.

When Bo Huang heard others praise him for his high emotional intelligence, he said: The so-called high emotional intelligence actually means that he doesn't want to hurt others. I have a soft place in my heart, so many times I don't want to say such absolute things. I am not a person with high emotional intelligence, but I may be a little better than the average person. Are you moved by his modesty?

This is the lovely Bo Huang, the best actor in everyone's eyes. In this era of value, maybe you will be replaced by more beautiful people in the future; But having a kind and intelligent heart will make people follow all the way, which is irreplaceable. Bo Huang, on the other hand, is the latter.

How can I put it? Just like Xiao Ming, because of his high EQ, everyone knows that Xiao Ming's EQ is higher than mine! Ask Xiaoming yourself if you don't believe me. My EQ is less than one tenth that of Bo Huang. Think about how high it is!

So high, Bo Huang casually said, don't boast of high emotional intelligence, Bo Huang himself doesn't know why …

That's a bit abstract. Let's give a few examples.

1, Ma Yun is a famous joke king. "I'm not interested in money" and "I can't help being a boss" became his masterpiece. Once met by chance, Ma Yun asked Bo Huang, "What do you think of my face value?" Bo Huang replied "We are not worse than each other", which not only didn't offend Ma Yun, but also improved his level.

2. Lu Yu asked Bo Huang; "After a person becomes famous, others think differently about you. Some time ago, it was rumored that you had a facelift "? Obviously, Lu Yu wants to give Bo Huang a duel. However, after a short thought, Bo Huang slowly replied, "Let's just take it as a joke. If I do this after plastic surgery, the hospital will not give me much money. "

3. Once again, Lu Yu decided to win back a city and asked Bo Huang, "Do you feel angry?" This question is obviously more targeted. Admit your pride, but deny it. Bo Huang was caught in a very embarrassing situation on the spot. After a moment's hesitation, he tactfully replied, "That must be a fire. After chatting with Lu Yu, can you not fire! " Borrow Lu Yu's fame and praise her without belittling yourself.

I really have to admire such emotional intelligence.