What flowers should I send on my death anniversary?

What flowers should be given on the anniversary of death?

What flowers should be given on the anniversary of death? Generally, during the Qingming Festival and Winter Solstice, everyone will pay homage to their ancestors, and they will choose flowers when offering sacrifices. So, What kind of memorial flowers are there now? Then let’s take a look at what flowers should be given to me on this anniversary of Zhang’s death. What flowers should be given on the anniversary of death 1

In our country’s traditional culture, a married woman is a member of her husband’s family. Since we are no longer part of the family, we cannot visit the graves of our parents. We can only let people from our mother's family visit the grave instead.

In the past, visiting graves was very particular. It didn’t just mean visiting the graves. If you don't follow the rules, you will be laughed at. It is not in line with sacrificial etiquette for a daughter who is married outside to visit her parents' graves.

However, times are developing and society is progressing. Some sacrificial rituals should also conform to the development of the times. Make some necessary changes to meet the requirements of the times.

For example, if married women cannot visit their parents’ graves, this should be changed. If this does not change, many parents will not have anyone to visit their graves after their death.

The reason for this situation is that in a special era, a special only-child family was created. What will these only-daughter families do if they don’t have a son? Why don’t they go to the grave?

In addition, the main purpose of visiting the graves of our parents is to express the longing of the younger generation for their elders. It is also a way to express gratitude and express emotions.

Brother Ran believes that if a married woman has brothers in her natal family, she can let her natal brothers visit the grave instead, which is also in line with etiquette. If a married woman has no brothers from her biological family, she has no choice but to visit the grave in person.

1. White chrysanthemums

White chrysanthemums can be given as a gift to the deceased, which can express the memory and deep longing for the deceased. Generally, white chrysanthemums are given as a gift during tomb sweeping or on the anniversary of death to express spiritual comfort.

2. White roses

White roses can not only express love, but also express love and respect for the deceased. Therefore, when expressing grief, you can choose white roses to express your remembrance and love for the deceased.

3. White hydrangeas

White hydrangeas are usually placed in mourning halls to express respect for the deceased. White hydrangea can be used to make a wreath to express the longing for the deceased and the pain and sadness due to the death of the deceased.

4. White lily

The white lily represents majesty and solemnity, fits the heavy atmosphere of a funeral, and is suitable for use at funerals. Many people choose to send white lilies to the deceased to express their condolences, respect, and longing for the deceased. What flowers should be given on the anniversary of death 2

1. What flowers should be used to worship and sweep tombs during Qingming Festival? 1. White flowers

Generally speaking, white flowers express condolences. , it is more appropriate to choose white chrysanthemums, white lilies, calla lilies, etc. for sweeping graves. White roses, gardenias or plain flowers symbolize regret and longing. Some people prefer simple and tough plants such as Penglai pine, Gladiolus, and Paicao.

2. Yellow flowers

Yellow flowers can also express mourning, among which yellow chrysanthemums are the most commonly used.

3. Flowers with warm colors

If an elderly person passes away, the proportion of red and pink flowers can be appropriately increased. These warm colors will be more beautiful. It can reflect the endless longing of future generations. It should be noted that unless there are special circumstances, it is best not to use brightly colored flowers with strong fragrance, so as not to give people the impression of disrespecting the deceased.

4. You can choose the type of flowers according to the deceased’s preferences when he was alive

Of course, you don’t have to stick to this when sweeping the grave. You can choose the type of flowers according to the age and preferences of the deceased, such as forget-me-nots and yellow roses. , red roses, birds of paradise and other flowers are also acceptable. The specifics vary from person to person.

2. Send flowers during the Qingming Festival, and give different flowers to different people.

Most of the flowers used during the Qingming Festival are tied into bouquets. The color elements of the flowers are light, mainly white, supplemented by yellow, and embellished with purple.

The flowers that make up the Qingming Festival bouquet can be chosen from the following types: calla lilies, carnations, gladioli, chrysanthemums, peacock grass, roses, forget-me-nots, etc.

The flowers used to sweep tombs during the Qingming Festival are mainly to express a sense of nostalgia. The color of the flowers is mainly white, such as white calla lilies, white or yellow roses. White and yellow are interlaced, with A few purple forget-me-nots, a bouquet of flowers like this, are placed in front of the tombs of relatives, expressing deep feelings of longing for them. There is no need to deliberately pursue the meaning of the flowers used during Qingming Festival. The use of color language is enough to convey grief.

For elders, you can offer yellow or white chrysanthemums

For peers, you can also offer yellow and white chrysanthemums first, and other lighter-colored lilies and dragon flowers. Both are good choices.

For a friend, I don’t think there is a need to stick to formalities, just choose the flowers he liked during his lifetime. It doesn't matter if it's a red rose. In fact, I think the color of the flowers and the type of flowers are not important. After all, there is no mandatory rule. I personally think that it is most appropriate to give the other person the words they liked most during their lifetime, or the flowers that best express your feelings for them!

3. What does the Tomb Sweeping Day bouquet mean? 1. Grief

Flower materials: 19 large white chrysanthemums + small chrysanthemums.

Flower language: The winter wind blows, the cold comes, and I miss you deeply; the rain falls, the winter feeling is strong, and I miss you in my heart; I am lonely, so lonely, and I can’t help but miss you. .

2. Memories

Flower materials: 7 yellow chrysanthemums + 10 white violets (or snapdragons) + 2 white perfume lilies + 1 white chrysanthemum.

Flower language: Suitable for delivery occasions such as funerals, tomb sweeping during the Qingming Festival, and death anniversaries of ancestors. This bouquet is a funeral bouquet, please be aware.

3. Remembering old friends

Flower materials: 3 multi-headed white perfume lilies + 19 yellow chrysanthemums.

Flower language: Flowers for special occasions. Ceremony bouquets, funeral flowers, Tomb Sweeping Day flowers, mourning flowers, and memorial flowers.

4. The flower language of flowers for worshiping and sweeping graves during Qingming Festival

1. The flower language of asparagus: eternity.

2. The flower language of willow branches: sadness and mourning.

3. The flower language of Centennial Flower: Immortality.

4. The flower language of cypress branches: mourning.

5. The flower language of three-wheeled grass and baby's breath: miss you.

6. The flower language of goldfish: sadness.

7. The flower language of flower hairpins (Sedumaceae): Sympathy and condolences.

8. The flower language of pansy: longing.