If the father-in-law contacts his predecessor with jokes.

Maybe one day you meet your ex-girlfriend on the street corner, or you meet someone who wears the same clothes as your ex-girlfriend, or even you just see someone who looks like her back, and a ripple appears in your heart, recalling her smile and her kindness.

Then you begin to regret it and ponder why you were so stupid in the first place. I gave up so foolishly, without trying to save it, and without trying several times.

Thinking about it, an impulse to get back together with her surged up, and you began to simulate many pictures of meeting her, greeting her, and fantasizing about starting over with her.

However, fantasy belongs to fantasy, but the reality is that the probability of recovery is not necessarily 1%, and those who are unwilling to part with the past can often only turn into a sigh. So how do you contact or even get back together with your ex?

How to send information?

I am a person who dreams almost every day, and the content is varied. I often dream about different people and strange things. Later, I found that dreaming is a good opening excuse, and I can chat smoothly with my ex-girlfriend or friends of the opposite sex who haven't contacted for a while.

So if you want to get your friend back, you can start by saying, "I dreamed of you last night."

A quick sentence avoids the stubbornness of your sudden contact and her embarrassment of recalling the past, and finds a natural excuse for reopening the topic.

Moreover, this sentence does not have much sense of demand and will not put too much pressure on the opposite side. It is a kind of "curious opening" in disguise. The other person usually wants to know the content of the dream.

As for the follow-up, it can be extended through dreams. According to her interest, she can go in or out. If she doesn't respond well, you might as well make a joke, be humorous, change the subject and talk to you next time. If the other person listens carefully, you can seize the rare opportunity.

Chatting with my ex went well. What should I say?

Don't mention the past.

Remember, never mention the past. It is obviously confusing to say such a thing. We broke up. Who remembers what happened before? Before what?

Now that you broke up, it means that you must have had unhappiness before. You are stupid and cute. I thought you dug a hole and jumped in.

So don't mention some old things, and don't say that everything before me has changed. I won't do it again. Believe me, nobody really wants to hear this.

If I really want to mention you, I will mention how you have become outstanding after talking to her, such as work, figure (forgive me for being a fitness freak) and how full and interesting life is. Of course, I'm not boasting, but new advantages are always more important than changed disadvantages.

Don't set the current relationship.

It really doesn't matter what your relationship is now. In fact, it's really not appropriate to mention it now, at least wait until she is interested in you again, and then talk about pursuing her. You just need to talk about your heart, life and future. Perhaps this feeling is very comforting, showing up when the other person needs it, pretending to be the same as before, making you mistakenly think that you have returned to the past.

But when I woke up, I went back to my life track, as if what happened yesterday was