How to be an interesting person?

I used to hear people say: "This person is very interesting." I will pay close attention to that person, observe his words and deeds, and sometimes I will find something: either that person is very educated, or that person speaks with humor; either that person is very good at playing by the opportunity, or that person is very capable. He is considerate and considerate. Anyway, that person must be someone that everyone often pays attention to and often talks about and thinks of in the quiet time. Therefore, an interesting person must be an attractive person, a likable person, and sometimes a person with perfect merits. Recently, I started to attract the attention of some people on my blog (of course, this is not because I wrote a good blog). A person named Baipi praised me as a living treasure. After reading this, I didn't think it was derogatory, but I found it very useful. This is probably because Bai Pi is a good friend of mine. Being able to bring a knowing smile to a friend should be a big merit. In my heart, Baipi, Qianfeng, Qingkong, Youqing and Luoyan are all very interesting people. Their common characteristics are: self-confidence, humor, open-mindedness, strong personality, and they can all write well. article. Therefore, I would say that if you want to learn to be an interesting person, you must start from the following aspects: First, you must read enough poems and books. The ancients said, "There is poetry and calligraphy in one's belly." This is the basis for being an interesting person. Without this, one can only be regarded as a common person. Tao Yuanming said in "Inscriptions on the Humble Room", "There are great Confucian scholars when talking about it, but there are no white people who come and go." The kind of leisure life of literati and refined scholars that Tao the senior yearned for is something you must know if you want to be an interesting person. But elegance should not only include the beauty of spring and snow, but also the people of lower classes. It is best to have elegance in elegance and vulgarity in it, elegance in vulgarity, and elegance in vulgarity. Second, be a good person. Life is nothing more than being a person and doing things. People tend to do things seriously and generally do not do things half-heartedly, but being a human being is different. Of course, being a good person does not mean that you are docile, unprincipled, and always go along with the flow of favors. And the good people in my heart are those who dare to speak out with swords, dare to be angry for beauty, and dare to stand up for the truth. You must be like Baipi, with a heart of justice, a gentleman's way, and the courage to safeguard the interests of others and yourself. Like the wind, he is compassionate, eager to solve people's problems, and solve their difficulties. Like a falling goose, keep the heart of a common man in your family and country. The third thing is to have good skills. The old man said, "A little skill is better than a thousand hectares of fertile land." Without this, you will have no confidence in your heart, you will be timid in doing things, it will be difficult to speak confidently, and it will be even more difficult to be an interesting person. Because people must survive first. Only by solving the problem of survival skills can we be recognized and recognized by others, and can we get rid of many psychological and material constraints and enter the realm of freedom. With the above three points, if you can learn more about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and understand more about art appreciation, you may be able to get close to interesting people. In life, most interesting people have distinctive personalities, and are sometimes called temperamental people. The possible reasons for this are: sometimes they are unconstrained, unrestrained, and full of romantic ideas; sometimes they are spontaneous, spontaneous, and courageous; sometimes they meet by chance, He is known as a friend, and he will stop after getting drunk; sometimes he is humorous, vulgar and elegant, and everyone looks at him with suspicion. I am trying to be an interesting person. I hope that the blogger friends mentioned above and those not mentioned above will often come to my cabin to sit and leave your calligraphy, your affection, your wisdom, and more Give my cabin one meter of sunshine, two ounces of flowers, and three pounds of life!