How can you learn to put yourself in other people's shoes?

Empathy is very important in interpersonal communication, and it is a skill that people need to master. Only by mastering this skill can we feel at home in interpersonal communication without casually saying a word, which will touch the pain of others and make them have an unpleasant experience.

To put yourself in the other's shoes, we must first get rid of stubborn personal ideas. Really put yourself in the other person's situation and think about why the other person's choice is like this, not other choices. Think about the difficulty of the other person when he makes a choice that you don't agree with, and what consequences he assumes will result from not making such a choice. Some people don't know how to empathize, which makes people feel very emotional, just like a joke that has been circulating for a long time called? Why not eat minced meat? ? This is a typical story that can't be empathetic. The story is about an emperor. His courtiers told him that there was a famine now, and then he asked those people why they didn't eat meat even though they didn't have rice to eat.

This is a misunderstanding caused by completely different living conditions. As an emperor, he has been well-fed all his life, and he doesn't need to worry about food. Therefore, in his mind, rice and meat are almost the same as food. If there is no rice, he can eat meat. This is a natural concept. But he forgot that ordinary people can't afford meat at all, so how can we avoid this limitation? We should observe more and know more about the world. Don't put yourself in a very small situation, but just read more books and communicate with others, which can improve your vision. Improving our horizons will help us to think in other's shoes and further promote the efficiency of our communication with others.

Empathy is a skill that we must master when communicating with others. Because we are all different individuals, we all experience different lives and situations, which leads to different personalities, so there are bound to be some conflicts, and some people don't understand. It doesn't matter if this contradiction arises. Don't let the contradictions expand, but learn to think from their perspective, so we must learn to empathize.