A letter to my daughter (July 65438, 2002)

Dear baby: Good evening! Yesterday, my mother gave you a summary of the first phase of Dandelion Farm Summer Camp. I worship you! Last night, it suddenly occurred to me that I didn't summarize it, and that was a condolence flower for you. That night, you came back with a big bunch of flowers and said that Zhang bought you condolence flowers. Haha, mom didn't expect Zhang to pay tribute to your work in such a romantic way. It is really warm! Mom is very excited. This Zhang's EQ is too high, which always brings us surprises and excitement. Last night, when my mother was chatting in your room, I suddenly heard Zhang singing: I love you ................ When you see my mother present, stop him from singing. As soon as my mother saw it, she quickly withdrew from your room. Haha, my mother knows what this English means. Women and girls are happy, really happy! I believe your romantic love will last for a long time, for life!

Yesterday morning, when your father saw you off, it was raining, so it was inconvenient for you to take things. Your mobile phone fell to the ground and the screen broke. You told your mother that you want to buy a new mobile phone again. My mother says it's not good for you to buy a new mobile phone after only one year. You said you needed something with a large capacity. Then I eliminated this mobile phone and gave it to Zhang. Mom doesn't think it's a good idea to throw away the mobile phone. You said that his current mobile phone was eliminated by his mother, and his father used his fucking mobile phone every time. It's true. There are several such mobile phones. Mom uses it first and gives it to dad after elimination. I remember a Nokia mobile phone. My mother used it for two or three years, and my father used it for another two or three years. This mobile phone has been used for more than six years. In the end, he didn't collapse and was eliminated by his classmates. Students laughed at him for using this mobile phone as a big boss, and it took so long to be eliminated. Mom thinks it's okay. Why doesn't Zhang Can Ye Jun like your eliminated mobile phone? My mother suddenly remembered the lyrics in "That Day" sung by Zhuo Ma in Deyang: On the day when I closed my eyes in the fragrant fog of the temple, I suddenly heard the proverbs in your chanting. All the prayer tubes were shaking that night, not to cross but to touch your fingertips. That year, I kowtowed and climbed on the mountain road, not to see you, but to stick to your warmth ... Is it the same feeling for Zhang to hold your used mobile phone? Haha, this is a mobile phone with temperature and love. Mom thinks it's okay.

Mom told you that if you want to buy a new mobile phone, you can't buy it until mom makes money from stock trading. You said you lost, I said you lost, you can wait, and when you earn it, you can buy it, if you agree. In the morning, my mother helped two children read The Analects in the stadium. Just after 9: 30, my mother turned on her mobile phone. God, Baotou Steel's stock has really gone up, and the book shows that it has earned more than 2,300 yuan. Mom quickly took a screenshot for you to decide whether to sell it or not. First you are surprised, and then you tell your mother to sell it decisively. Well, whatever you say. Mom opened it and found that it fell a little, only earning 2033, and later earning 300 less. Make a decisive move and get it in the bag. It closed today and fell even more. My daughter asked me to sell it well! Mom left you a message saying that this 2000 yuan will buy you a mobile phone and repair Zhang's old mobile phone screen. You replied that Zhang said that he would pay for screen repair and wouldn't let us. This picture always has the virtue of empathy, which is a sign of kindness. This precious gentleman virtue is everywhere, like, warm heart! Then let him do it. Haha, buy a mobile phone tomorrow, and don't forget the stock of Baotou Steel. Mom fell as soon as she bought it. Why did my daughter go up when she said she wanted to buy a mobile phone? Is that enough? Repairing the old mobile phone is enough. Zhang repaired his mobile phone with his money, so you can buy him another one with the extra money. Love needs to be expressed!

In the afternoon, my mother is at school, taking two children to study. I happened to see an article on the official account of WeChat, "I regret leaving home for ten years: every girl who marries far away has to suffer these four kinds of hardships". Mom thinks of your romantic love with Zhang, are you also in the ranks of distant marriage? Mom, open it quickly. It doesn't matter if you don't look. I can't help crying when I watch it. The pictures written by the author are very strong, and my mother can think of pictures of every girl who marries far away. Oh, so many lives are not good. The relationship between parents-in-law, acclimatization, economic pressure and so on all determine the happiness index. Of course, there are many who live well. Mom believes that you are the latter, and mom knows that Zhang really loves you. At the end of the article, the author gives two suggestions: 1, to be economically independent; 2. Men really love you. Don't tell me, mom really believes that you can have both. But what if? What's wrong with it? We all have an idea in our family that love should be chosen first. And they all like romantic love. However, a foothold is also very important. Think more about the future and how to earn money to support the family. Don't say this is Zhang's business, this is your business. Mom and dad will help you, too. Your happiness is the greatest happiness of mom and dad!

Bless my baby with selfless courage and self-help confidence!

Love your mother.

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