Why is Yingchun so weak and incompetent?

Yingchun's cowardice also comes from her inferiority complex. In psychology, inferiority refers to the complex mentality of individual weakness, incompetence, inferiority or inferiority. Psychologist Adler believes that inferiority comes from childhood weakness and helplessness, coupled with organic defects and social contusion, which will make people form a complex complex. Specifically, Yingchun's inferiority complex mainly comes from two reasons, one is the identity of unmarried women, and the other is the pressure of lack of talents.

As the pressure of concubines, Yingchun was born of forgiving her father's concubine. In the hierarchical feudal society, its status is not the same as that of having children. Coupled with the early death of Yingchun's mother, Yingchun's inferiority complex can be imagined. Due to inferiority complex, Yingchun has become more and more resigned. She will neither actively pursue her own needs, nor dare to express her wishes bravely. When things happen, she mostly adopts the strategy of turning small into big and is willing to be invisible.

The early death of Yingchun's mother made her lack of care since she was a child. Psychologically speaking, a person's sense of security depends largely on the intimacy between infancy and childhood. The more their emotional attachment needs are met, the more perfect their personality development and intimate relationship will be. In the growing process of Yingchun, her emotional attachment has always been blank. She lost her maternal love since she was a child and never got the love of her father and brother. In addition, Jia She, as a father, is dissolute and lewd, doing nothing, and never restraining and educating his children. As a half-brother, Jia Lian also inherited his father's lewd love affair. In addition, he has to rush about the affairs of Guo Rong's family on weekdays, so he has no time and energy to care about this sister. Besides, although Mrs. Xing is nominally the mother of Yingchun, she is full of hatred for Yingchun in her bones. She once sneered, "You were raised in front of my master, and the detective girl here was raised in front of my second master. She comes from the same background. Your mother is ten points better than Aunt Zhao. You should be better than a detective. Why are you not as good as him? -but my childless life is clean, and I can't make people laugh! " It can be said that Mrs. Xing's contempt for Yingchun is self-evident.

As the pressure of talent shortage, Yingchun has no characteristics in front of many outstanding women. In the 18th chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions, it was written that relatives in Yuan Chun province demanded "the right amount of questions", and Yingchun wrote a poem "Sexual Pleasure": The garden was beautifully prepared, and life was ashamed of the rich amount of questions. Who believes that there is such a situation in the world? Such a limerick is not even as good as Tanchun, let alone competing with Xue and Lin. In the 22nd episode of A Dream of Red Mansions, Yuan Chun asked all his sisters solve riddles on the lanterns, but she and Jia Huan guessed wrong. In that case, although Yingchun tried to comfort herself on the surface that it was just a "joke" and didn't mind, her inner embarrassment and frustration could be imagined.

The thirty-seventh chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions is about everyone opening a poetry club. Li Wan listened to Daiyu's suggestion and asked everyone to have a nickname. Yingchun said, "We are not good at poetry. Why do we get a nickname for nothing? " As a result, Baochai nicknamed her "Lingzhou" before she passed the customs. Because Yingchun was not proficient in poetry and did not actively participate, she finally got the title of "copying prison". Ying Chun's inner unwillingness is self-evident.

Because of all this, the emotional world of Yingchun has become colder and drier, and her personality has become more and more silent. On weekdays, Yingchun just lives quietly, or masturbates with books, or listens to the arrangement of her sisters. In the Grand View Garden, she lacks the minimum sense of security. No one can support her at the critical moment. Yingchun can only hope to muddle along and make as little trouble as possible. As a result, when the chess game came out, Yingchun's helplessness and indifference were entirely due to her personality. However, as the saying goes, Marsanne's character of being ridden, bullied and meekly accepting the spring laid the foundation for her later life tragedy.