What's the difference between raising a boy and a girl?

With the development of the times, many people have got rid of the concept of son preference, and even many people just want daughters. When they grow up, sons will marry daughters, so there is still a difference between adopting sons and daughters.

The degree of worry will be different. After giving birth to a daughter, it is said that her daughter was her father's little lover in his last life. My father will take care of her very carefully, afraid of bumping into her. When she grows up, her daughter will go to other places to study or work and get married, so she is doomed not to stay with her parents all the time. After giving birth to a boy, parents generally hope that they will suffer more and experience more life training to make them more manly, so even if their son wanders outside alone for a long time, they will not be particularly worried. Therefore, there is a great difference in the degree of worry between raising a son and raising a daughter.

Boys and girls have different degrees of filial piety to their parents. It is said that the daughter is an intimate little cotton-padded jacket, and the girl's mind will be more delicate and considerate to her parents. Even when she grows up, she will always care about her parents and be caring and attentive, while her sons and boys usually focus on their careers. There will be less time to go home after work, and parents also think that men should put work first, so even if their son doesn't go home for a long time, he won't be blamed. But it can't be said that a son is not filial to his parents. Their methods of filial piety are just different. Even if you don't go home during the Chinese New Year, you will give money directly to your parents to buy yourself something nice. My son will only share some good things in life with his parents, and he will never say anything about some difficulties he has encountered. He doesn't want his parents to worry about it. It's easier

There are also differences between sons and daughters after marriage and childbirth. Most daughters may marry their in-laws when they grow up. When a son grows up and gets married, he has to take care of everything for him, take care of his children after marriage, and may have to live together for decades, so there is still a long time to worry about.

There is a saying that "the son is poor and the daughter is rich". In fact, sons and daughters are all their own children. Why should we treat them differently? Both parents want the best for their children. If there is only one daughter or one son, this statement should not exist. If there is a son and a daughter, they should be treated fairly. Otherwise, the two children will have thoughts in their hearts that you don't love him, so I don't agree with this statement.