Did your mother-in-law take care of your confinement when you gave birth?

Of course, my mother-in-law will take care of the confinement, because my mother died many years ago when I was born. There was no such thing as a "new moon" at that time. If she doesn't take care of Yuezi, her son will have to take care of me, and his son will do nothing. She knows better than anyone. My mother-in-law moved to my house early when I was eight months pregnant.

When the due date comes, I am slow to move. I didn't go to the hospital for examination at that time. I'm just waiting at home. Eight or nine days after the due date, my mother-in-law said, "Come on, I'll take you to dinner, and you'll have a baby after eating." I don't know what "aisle meal" means. It should be the child's birthday. Let's go to his birthday party! I didn't expect to be born the next day after eating "aisle meal"

My mother-in-law is very patriarchal, but she said, "Everything is the same." And thank her for not putting pressure on me. Once a neighbor in Lu Yu said that I could have a boy. Her mother-in-law said, "If I really have a son, I will buy you cigarettes." My mother-in-law is also particular about it. When I really gave birth to a boy, she really bought someone a cigarette at the first time.

As I gave birth to a boy, I said to her as soon as I left the delivery room, "Bring the baby to me." She replied, "We'll see." It really makes me helpless to take my children home to show my father-in-law.

There is no milk in the month, and my mother-in-law who has served several daughters in the month is a little confused, so she has to take Chinese medicine to feed me and buy milk powder. But they don't read the instructions, insist on letting their children eat breast milk and occasionally supplement their children with milk powder.

Maybe there is too little breast milk, too little milk powder for children, and children always cry when they are hungry. I didn't know until I read the instructions that the amount of milk powder I gave my child every day was too small, which made the child very annoyed.

Mother-in-law didn't know from there that it was good for children to massage and dispel fire. Children hold their children out for massage every day for more than ten days. The child may be tired of crying during the massage, and he will sleep well when he comes back. From time to time, she will say that it is the effect of massage. My son was born white and watery. I always feel that my mother-in-law likes the feeling of taking her grandson out, like this and like that. She massaged the child until the full moon, and left me at home when she went out to massage the child. Although she is a little uncomfortable, she can't say what's wrong.

My mother-in-law lives frugally, but she is willing to spend money on expensive and good milk powder for her grandson. She didn't mention money to us. The nipple broke in a few days. She didn't buy a lot at once, she just waited until it was broken.

After working for more than ten days, it just stopped warming in the northeast and the building was a little cold. My mother-in-law suggested not to sleep in my room at night. Considering that she has internal rheumatism, I agreed. She changed her husband back to my house, and he always dared to take care of the children. The bag fell apart after the child moved a few times. I got up and did it myself, and I caught a cold the next month.

The old-fashioned confinement of northeast women is rice porridge with eggs, which is simple and boring. Finally, she was really tired of eating. Occasionally, my mother-in-law will get some seafood clams without salt and bring me delicious food, and the fruit will be soaked in hot water.

Two generations must have different views. It's hard to say who is right or wrong. My mother-in-law and I can tolerate each other and live in peace. At least I am grateful, because you think your mother-in-law loves me and her children. I don't have the idea of "having a family" like some modern people. The child is what I want, not myself. It is kind of her to take care of me.

I hate some jokes on the platform now. If my mother-in-law doesn't wait on me for a month, I won't wait on her when she is old. After all, she raised your husband, and retired people have pensions. Sometimes you really can only say, "You think too much." Don't take revenge on the moon rashly. "

In fact, most mother-in-law takes the next month because she loves her son and his grandson more and loves you by the way.