The bride price of the husband's family is 300,000, and the dowry of the bride's family is 200,000. After a year of marriage, I filed for divorce.

Before I got married, I had 300,000 certificates of deposit from my husband's family and 200,000 certificates of deposit from my mother's family. A marriage without money should have been happy. I didn't expect to get divorced after a year of marriage.

I am an introverted girl, and I have listened to my mother since I was a child. I won't do anything that my mother won't let me do. From elementary school to college graduation, I have never been in love, and I have been ridiculed as a mother and son flying alone.

Some boys chased me, but I refused because my mother wouldn't let me.

I am 25 years old and met a boy I like. It happened that that boy also liked me. My mother began to worry about my marriage. When she heard that I was in love, she didn't stop me and urged me to bring my boyfriend home.

My boyfriend Wang Xin is my senior and stayed in this city after graduation.

Seeing his parents for the first time, Wang Xin spent a lot of money, estimated to have spent nearly a year's salary, bought jewelry and cosmetics for his mother, Moutai for his father, gifts for his grandparents and a game console for his younger brother.

I had a good time when we first met. My family is very satisfied with Wang Xin. I am 27 years old and Wang Xin is 30 years old. It is time to get married.

With the help of my parents, Wang Xin paid the down payment of the house, and my mother was relieved to own the house.

Wang Xin's parents also want their son to get married early. They came to visit my parents to show their respect and said that they were discussing our marriage with their mother.

My mother is a strong person and has never compromised at home. With the house, my mother went straight to the point, and the bride price was 300 thousand, not a penny less, and my name was saved in the form of time deposit certificate. My mother said that my husband's family paid a bride price of 300,000 yuan, and she married 200,000 yuan, all in my name. She won't ask for money.

That night, Wang Xin's parents were embarrassed. Wang Xin's mother said that she was an ordinary working family, which provided for Wang Xin to go to college and supported him to buy a house, which really hollowed out her family.

When she left, Wang Xin's parents looked lonely and Wang Xin was depressed. Wang Xin's mother said that she thought her son had worked and bought a house, and her task had been completed. Unexpectedly, it is so difficult to marry a daughter-in-law now.

I talked to my mother, otherwise we don't want the money.

My mother scolded me. "If Wang Xin really loves you, she will find a way. Mom did it for your own good. Can I still harm you? "

Yes, I can't refute it. My mother did it for my own good, which I never doubted.

I haven't seen Wang Xin for a month, but I can't get through. I heard that he went home on vacation. My mother said, "Look, you can beat Wang Xin for 300,000 yuan. You are not suitable."

Wang Xin came back and lost some weight. He asked me for my ID card, but he actually deposited 300,000 yuan in my name.

My parents also gave me a deposit certificate of 0.2 million/200 thousand, which was a fulfillment of my original promise. My mother said, "Think of this as your young couple's family start-up fund."

I married Wang Xin, and I think this is the beginning of our happiness. Unexpectedly, maybe from the moment we talked about money, our love changed.

This 300,000 yuan was raised by Wang Xin's parents selling their house.

After the wedding, I wanted to go on my honeymoon, but Wang Xin ended her wedding leave early, saying that the company had projects.

I think Wang Xin thinks she owes her parents. Maybe she will get better after a while.

But I didn't expect him to be someone else. He lost a lot of patience with me and became bossy when he got home. I'm a little complaining. Wang Xin said confidently, "For you, my parents have no place to live. Isn't that what you should do? "

I blame myself, too. If I had persuaded my mother, maybe it wouldn't have happened.

Because I feel guilty, I am more tolerant of Wang Xin.

I even discussed with Wang Xin that he is working hard now and will buy a suite in the future to take his parents to live. Wang Xin ignored me as if he didn't hear me at all.

When a mother-in-law gives birth to a child, she can't do without money. I'm the daughter-in-law she married after losing everything. My task is to carry on the family line, but I was admitted to the graduate student I want to go to most.

I discussed with my mother-in-law in a pleading tone. When she wanted to have another child after graduation, her mother-in-law hung up the phone directly.

I was busy at work and didn't care. I want to wait for Wang Xin to help me talk to my mother-in-law at night. She should understand.

When I came home from work at night, Wang Xin said with a black face that I deliberately made my mother-in-law angry and had a bad tone. "My mother sold the house to you. What happened to your baby?" Can't you afford 500 thousand? What else do you want? "

I tried to explain, "you know, it took me three years to get into graduate school, and I did it for our better life in the future." Will my child be reborn after graduation? "

"In order to marry you, my parents became the jokes of the whole village. You've been married for a year and have no children. How many years will she have to wait? "

The anger in Wang Xin's tone also made me angry. Having a baby is between him and me. What does it have to do with my mother-in-law?

"We should also have our own plans. Since you always care about money, why can't you improve your earning power? Having a baby is between you and me. I am also very wronged. This year, Wang Xin did not forget to use this matter to run on me.

"Having children is a matter for both of us. What about getting married? Why didn't you say it was between us? You are so selfish. Don't forget, you were bought by my family for 300,000 yuan. " Wang Xin said sarcastically, as if hurting me would make him feel better.

I'm just ashamed. I am a person, not a commodity.

Wang Xin slammed the door and didn't come back all night.

I stayed up all night, Xinhe Wang. I was doomed to tragedy, maybe from the moment my mother talked about money. If his parents hadn't sold the house at that time, it might just be a regret that we separated, instead of turning his guilt for his parents into resentment for me.

But what did I do wrong? Because of his guilt, should I pay for it with the happiness of the rest of my life?

I don't want this marriage. If I give in and give birth to a child this time, will I be forced to have a second child, be a housewife and lose my life?

300,000 is just two or three years' salary. Why should I lose my life?

This time, I decided to be brave.

Without consulting anyone, I left a deposit slip of 300 thousand and wrote a divorce agreement.

@ Xiao Xie talks about emotions

The ending of the story is really distressing. My parents are very kind to us, but the ending may not be satisfactory.

Your mother, she is not material, she just loves her daughter, and she doesn't want you to live a life of chicken flying and dog jumping after marriage, so she wants a bride price of 300 thousand. This money is for you, not for herself.

Xiao Xie, it's hard to blame your mother. After all, it's not easy for her to raise you. You and Wang Xin are alumni, and Wang Xin's parents may not pay more than you. I don't want to stand on the moral high ground and blame others.

Wang Xin's parents can give everything for their son, which is really touching. Buying a house for my son, spending half my life savings, and even marrying my son made me homeless. But it's my choice and my son's choice. You can't ask too much of your daughter-in-law just because of your own efforts.

In this story, the most disappointing thing is Xin. He not only failed his parents' efforts, but also hurt himself and his hostess.

Although the ending is sad, Xiao Xie thinks that the hostess did the right thing, so there will be no happiness in such a marriage full of guilt and resentment. Let go of yourself and others.

Finally, Xiao Xie wants to say that a happy marriage needs an economic foundation, but a marriage with an economic foundation is not necessarily happy.

I am @ Xiao Xie. I look forward to meeting you in the world of words.