Reflections on Effective Speech

First, the speech should have the psychology of giving gifts.

I didn't dare to speak in front of everyone before, for fear that others wouldn't like to hear it. After listening to this book, I realized that I was nervous because I cared too much about other people's opinions. The more I care, the more nervous I am. In the book, I found a solution to this problem-taking speech as a process of distributing gifts. When you give, it will become more interesting and the fear will disappear.

Second, three things of efficient communication: content, style and state.

? The most important thing is the content. With good content, the audience can listen and remember you.

1, determine the result you want, and what do you want from your speech?

2. What do you need to let them know to achieve the purpose of conversation?

3. What kind of feelings do they need in order to achieve the result of the dialogue?

Third, ingenious structure: ramp-discovery-dessert.

1, the principle of building ramp

(1) If you use "I" once, you will use "you" ten times.

(2) Seven seconds rule: You only have seven seconds to win the attention of the audience, so the first sentence should be related to the audience.

(3) Be careful with jokes at the beginning, because people may not laugh.

(4) Don't put the wonderful at the end, the beginning is the most important.

2. Discovery: Three things you need to let the other person know.

3, dessert: a perfect ending, let the audience remember your speech.

Fourth, practice and use

Real learning begins after practice, and you often practice with the methods and structures mentioned in this book.