The woman thinks the bride price is too little and looks down on her. What do you think?

The woman feels that the bride price is too little and that looking down on her is a sign of lack of knowledge.

Betrothal gift is a local custom. In ancient times, the bride price was the money given by the man to his parents when he got engaged. In ancient times, parents raised their daughters from an early age. From the time the child was born, the parents peed and pooped to raise their daughters. How much hard work and sweat they went through, and how many hardships they went through. In the past, due to underdeveloped transportation, daughters got married. The man basically lives in his family, and it is not easy to go home once. As a man, in order to repay the woman's parents for their upbringing and the elders' hard work, he should give the woman's parents a little hard-earned money. In ancient times, due to the difficulty of making money, especially when you got older and had no one to support you and no financial resources, some parents had to ask for more hard-earned money.

Now the bride price has formed a form. Because it is a custom, the most important thing for Chinese people is not to forget the origin, so the betrothal gift has basically been passed down. But now the use of bride price has changed. Basically, it is used to buy things for the married woman. After the woman's parents receive the money, they will not keep it for themselves. They will also add some money to buy a car or other things for the married children, or give them to their children. Children's Development Fund. In the past, after getting married, they mainly lived in the man's home. Since they are now only children, after the children get married, they have to take care of both the man's parents and the woman's parents. They can live in the man's home or in the woman's home. Home. The son has the right to inherit, and the woman also has the right to inherit. The child's household registration can be registered in the husband's family and follow the husband's surname, or the household registration can be registered in the woman's family and follow the woman's surname. Therefore, the current betrothal gift is only a form, not an important content.

Now when you get engaged, discuss the amount of the bride price. When getting engaged, the parents and elders of both parties can sit together and have a meal to discuss the amount of the bride price. If the man's family economic conditions are better, I can give him a little more gift. If the man's family conditions are worse, I can give him a smaller gift. If the man thinks highly of the woman, he can give him a bigger gift. If he looks down on her, he can give him a smaller gift. It's completely true. A misunderstanding. The amount of the betrothal gift is originally a form. If everyone can come together and fall in love with each other, so that they get engaged and get married, both parties have a certain emotional foundation and a kind of recognition of the other, so it is said to be looked down upon.

The woman feels that the bride price is too small if the man’s financial foundation is not considered. The man can take out loans and borrow money, he can make the scene lively, he can also be extravagant and wasteful. When the time comes, the debt owed by your parents will not be repaid by you, which can make your future life difficult. If you meet a parent who is not enlightened, thinks that the woman is after money, that the woman is selling her daughter, has certain views on the woman, or insists on just a small amount of money, it is very likely that marriage will be regarded as a bad thing and they will break up.

Getting married is a happy thing, and we should do happy things well. If we care too much, we may turn good things into bad things.