I always don't understand where the joke is. Is it low emotional intelligence?

No, it's just that you don't understand their jokes because you are exposed to different things. It's like two strangers chatting happily on the road. You hear what they are saying, but you just don't understand what they are laughing at. Isn't that normal?

Everyone likes different things, and of course funny jokes are different. You don't think other people's jokes are funny just because you don't belong to their group.

I met many people with different personalities and found different things funny. Some people like to tell dirty jokes in front of others and feel how humorous they are. Of course, some people will laugh along, but some people just feel embarrassed. Does it mean that people who don't find it funny have low emotional intelligence? I don't think everyone will feel this way. It is just that different people are forced to stick together and respect each other. Why force everyone to understand each other?

In the past, a classmate told a cold joke in class, which was a very interesting little story, but some people found it boring. Everyone grows up in different environments and naturally has different ideas, so they should have different attitudes towards different jokes.