What should I say when I see my mother-in-law cooking day lilies for the first time?

In this case, you can use the following methods to communicate with them about the topic of roasting daylilies:

1. Express interest: You can say something like "Mother-in-law, I heard that you are good at roasting daylilies. I have always been interested in this dish, could you please share your cooking secrets?"

2. Compliment her cooking skills: You can say something like "I heard your day lilies are very delicious, and I'm looking forward to trying your specialty."

3. Express gratitude: You can say something like "Thank you for being willing to prepare this delicious day lily for us, I really appreciate it."

4. Express expectations: You can say something like "I am looking forward to tasting your daylilies with you, I believe it will be very delicious."