What social realities are some students not aware of?

Foreword:

The complexity of society is unpredictable by many college students, because as students, we are always in the stage of getting along with students, and most of the time we are on campus, so when you graduate and enter the society, you will find that the society is actually a special reality, and many things are unpredictable. When looking for a job, many people don't value ability but education

Do you think that as long as you have enough ability, you will definitely be better than those 985,211 students? In fact, when you enter the society, you will find a cruel reality, that is, those with higher academic qualifications may be better than you.

at school, I always thought that as long as I was tough enough, I could compete with those with better academic qualifications. Later, my cousin who entered the society told me that in fact, many big companies are not looking at your ability, but your academic qualifications. At the beginning, when you submit your resume, big companies will screen out those with stronger academic qualifications. The second is to look at your work experience, that is, to look at your ability. Moreover, in the eyes of big companies, people with better academic qualifications are generally more capable than those with worse academic qualifications, which has become a default concept. However, as a college student, I learned this truth only through those who entered the society.

A high EQ is far more advantageous than a high IQ

As students, we always compare everyone's grades, which is our state when we are on campus. However, in fact, when you get out of society, you will find that even if your grades are better, people with higher emotional intelligence will be better off in society than you.

This is a very realistic truth. Many students don't realize how important EQ is. For example, when they are working in a company, your boss encounters something and can't handle it. At this moment, if you choose to handle it, it is something outside your profession and you don't ask for anything in return. Then maybe your boss will unconditionally ask you to do other things in the future. This will only make your work more and more complicated. However, those with high emotional intelligence often choose to let the boss know that they are helping, not that I am qualified to help him.

In fact, when people get along with each other, they will find that people with high emotional intelligence are really different. Although their grades may not be as good as yours, if he has a high EQ, he can get along well with others. Such people also have more advantages in society.

Family background is very important

In fact, as students, there are relatively few of us who compare family background, so we all lived a carefree life and didn't have so much heart to compare with others. But I didn't realize that family background was very important until the society.

If your family background is excellent enough, you will have a great advantage in society. First, if the family conditions are good enough, you can find a better job through your relatives because of this condition. Second, the family conditions are excellent, which can be used as the basis for future work. Many students need enough money to enter the society and choose to start a business. If the family conditions are not good, they are likely to face difficulties without starting funds, but the family conditions are excellent, so there is no need to worry at all. Third, good family conditions can give you a lot of support at work. If you quit because of something, you will not get paid at this moment. If you have good family conditions, you will be able to provide support until you find another job.

Conclusion:

This society is full of various life truths.

If you don't feel it yourself, you may never understand it.

When you see the reality of this society,

you will understand the direction of your efforts.