What happened in college that suddenly made you understand something?

When you first entered the university, everyone was ignorant and didn't know the rules of life in the university, so you will suffer a lot, but you will also see a lot from the loss. Let me tell a story about me.

At the beginning of school, I heard from other students that it is best to buy second-hand books or find seniors to buy them. It was not cost-effective to buy school books, so I collected books in the group. Soon, a senior talked to me privately about selling books, and I said how much. He said that the price was higher than that of other freshmen, so I asked if it could be cheaper. He refused, saying that if he didn't buy it, he would drop it. I bought it at last. The next freshman bought my book, and my price was relatively low, but she still asked if it could be cheaper and finally compromised. When I know that others sell more money than I do, I know that I have lost money, but there is no turning back.

Buy a book.

Through this incident, I saw many truths in college life:

1. Don't be too nice to people.

Don't be too kind and kind in college, it will only harm you. Others will only use your kindness to bully you for a long time, because you will only endure it. If I had been adamant, not buying that person's book and looking for someone else, and not agreeing to continue to reduce the price and keep the original price, maybe I wouldn't have regretted it so much at that time. You know, affection is a taboo. Therefore, you can't be used by others and benefit from your kindness.

Don't be too kind.

2. Say "No" bravely

Saying "no" is very difficult for many people, because although that person has nothing to do with you, he is too embarrassed to leave a bad impression on others, so you won't say no, especially to people close to you. But schools are different. If you dare not say "no", it means that you are weak. On the contrary, if you can say "no" at an appropriate time, it will arouse the awe of others and form your prestige, so that no one will "bully" you again.

Learn to refuse

Don't listen to other people's opinions at will

I didn't know his book was very old until I bought it, and the traces of time were clearly visible on it. So, don't listen to other people's opinions at will. What others think is good may not be good for you. If you want to buy books but don't want to go to school, you can go directly to the bookstore or buy new books online, which is also more cost-effective.

Don't listen to opinions at will.

From everything you have experienced in college, you can see a lot of truth and learn a lot. As long as you can find it in time, you won't regret it too late and there will be no regrets!