How should a boy aged 10 educate and communicate?

I went back to my hometown on National Day. I heard that the admission rate of college entrance examination in our hometown broke through the historical record this year, and my cousin was admitted to the university. In my impression, he can't study at all. Later, when I saw his detailed inquiry, I discovered the mystery. It turned out that Mr. Qi, a senior three teacher, quietly used corporal punishment on students. His corporal punishment is not the traditional slap and spanking, but the students are punished to take off their shoes and socks and brush the soles of their feet with a wire brush.

When it comes to brushing the soles of the feet, my cousin can't help giggling. Don't mention it when she says it's itchy. After a while, she goes straight to her heart and can't bear it. The teacher mustn't laugh again. Whoever makes a noise will have to brush it again. The boys had to hold back their tears when they were punished. Some girls even bit their lips after being punished. But strangely, most students feel relaxed after being punished, as if their understanding and memory abilities have been enhanced at once, and their academic performance has generally improved. Slowly, the students are very willing to accept this kind of corporal punishment from the teacher. When parents heard about it, they did not compare this kind of corporal punishment with the behavior of simply torturing students' bodies, but recognized and supported it as a means of fitness.

Teacher Qi is related to my family, and my curiosity made me go to his house to find him. Referring to this matter, he said that it was originally a fitness means to stimulate nerves. There are many nerves in the soles of human feet. Through intense stimulation, people can stimulate the feeling of excitement, adjust their spirits, get better spirits, and their academic performance will naturally go up.

"Then consider me as your student and give me this kind of corporal punishment, okay?" I said. He did not refuse. I took off my shoes and socks and lay prone on the bed, showing my feet. Teacher Qi came with a brush, and my heart suddenly came to my throat. He picked up my left foot first. As soon as the brush touched the foot, a huge itch came to my face, and the brush brushed off the foot. I can't help laughing. When the brush rubs the soles of my feet, it is like scratching on the apex of my heart. That terrible itch kept my feet writhing, but he held me tightly and I couldn't escape from his brush. I had to laugh and brush it for about forty or fifty times, and I gradually felt that I couldn't stand it as much as I did at first. He put down my left foot and picked up my right foot. The brush hit my foot with a bang and itched like hell. I laughed till tears came out. I know it's no use struggling any more, so I have to bite the bullet and let him brush. In short, I laughed as soon as he brushed it until the corporal punishment was over.

"If you are my student, and laugh so impudently, you don't know when I will brush you today." He said. I don't think these children are easy. How can they endure such a huge cool itch without making any noise? Indeed, I was in a particularly good mood that day and the next few days, which may be the result of brushing my feet. Know each other and hate late. Dad is worried because his son is going to have an exam.

My son's scores in every exam are pitiful, and he is often too far from 60 points, let alone any excellent results. Although dad doesn't want to hit his son or criticize him, the poor score is really out of place with the score he should have if he wants to succeed, so dad often gets angry in court involuntarily. My son is often beaten to tears, and when he is criticized, his head almost hits his toes. When the father and son are emotional, the noise will definitely disturb the neighbors to stop the fight: it is understandable that children are playful and have poor grades. How can you do this to your child? Father, if you fail an exam, you will be beaten. ...

After a long time, the father also feels that this way of educating children is not very good, or even ineffective. My son didn't improve his exam results much, and he always alarmed his neighbors. So dad thought of a creative way. In addition to his own thinking, he also consulted a lot of information about children's education, such as newspapers, magazines, celebrity growth and so on. He finally found a way, read it again and decided to follow suit.

"Dad, the test paper has been sent, and the teacher asked the parents to sign it." The son handed his father a folded paper and folded it into a small square. Do you know why the papers are stacked and the size of a small square? Because it can prolong the time for dad to open the test paper, that is, delay the time for reading the scores, so that he can be beaten later.

After reading the test paper, my father jumped sideways, and when he saw it, his heart trembled: he was going to be beaten again. Sadly, he said, "I want to get high marks, but the pen tip just can't write the correct answer." I'm embarrassed, too "

"Son, yes, this time is better than last time, 37 points last time and 38 points this time. I think you must know that this score will still make dad angry. However, although Dad was angry, he didn't hit you this time. " Dad said quietly.

The son was moved to tears, thinking that his father finally realized that his son could not become a dragon under a stick.

"Come on, son, sit in the chair." Dad brought a chair.

Son unknown so, listen to your father and walk over.

Dad tied his son's upper body to the back of the chair with a rope, moved the bench with the same height to the opposite side, took off his son's shoes and socks, and put his feet on the stool.

"Dad, what are you going to do? Didn't you say you wouldn't hit me today? " My son is a little nervous.

"Yes, I won't hit you if I sayno." Dad turned away as he spoke, and I didn't know what to do.

After a while, my father brought a feather duster and pulled a feather from it. Squat down and scratch your son's foot with a chicken feather.

"Ha ha ha ha, I will study hard next time, ha ha …" The son suddenly realized that his father had changed a new way to punish people!

The neighbors heard their son laugh and happily promised to study hard. They all feel that repeated persuasion has worked and their hearts are full of joy.

The father scratched his son's foot and listened to the doorbell ring. The doorbell never rang, and there was no one in the door. It seems that this way will not disturb the neighbors again. Great, the founder of this idea is really smart, so that children can guarantee to study hard with laughter. If I had known this way, I wouldn't have let my neighbors think I was a rude parent. This impression will definitely damage my image. How terrible! Actually, I don't really want to hit my son. A father doesn't hurt his own flesh and blood, but beating his son hurts his father's heart. Who told the children to live up to expectations?

I really hate it. I know each other very well, and I hate this "laughing punishment" for being late, but it's great. You can safely educate your son.

The foot is also called the "second heart" of the human body. As early as Huangdi Neijing, the theoretical principle of foot health care was discussed. Thousands of years ago, our ancestors used the method of scratching their feet to achieve the purpose of treating diseases and protecting health. Simply massaging the feet can cure many diseases. What are the benefits of scratching the soles of your feet? Discuss it with readers. Scratching the soles of your feet can prevent spring sleep. In spring, people are particularly prone to drowsiness. The secret of eliminating spring sleepiness lies in pressing the inside of the thumb of both feet, corresponding to the trigeminal nerve reflex area. Pressing too much will cause brain excitement and make it difficult to fall asleep. People who are sleepy in spring can press here more, and elderly people who sleep less should not press this part. It should be noted that the intensity of pressing should be controlled, and light, medium and heavy methods should be adopted according to the individual's tolerance, so as not to cause discomfort. Scratching feet to prevent and treat cervical spondylosis, also known as cervical spondylosis, is a degenerative disease of bones. Medical experts have found that massaging the cervical vertebra in the reflex zone of the foot can produce exciting curative effects. The intensity is light at first, and gradually increases, so it is advisable to feel a little pain. Massage time is optional, preferably once in the morning and once in the evening. 10 ~ 30 minutes. After two weeks, it will have unexpected effects on general patients with cervical spondylosis. Scratching the soles of your feet can cure insomnia. Meditate cross-legged every night when you sleep, with your feet up, and then hold your breath to get rid of other thoughts. You can gently massage Yongquan point at the bottom of your feet for hundreds of times (Yongquan point is located in the depression in front of your feet). After a period of time, sleep improves, allowing you to sleep till dawn. Scratching the soles of your feet can relieve stress. Modern people are often in a state of high tension and depression, and neurosis, insomnia and forgetfulness emerge as the times require. If you can do a foot massage quietly before going to bed, the focus of attention will fall on the soles of your feet, which will inhibit the cerebral cortex. After scratching the soles of your feet for a period of time, the excitement and inhibition will naturally change, the circulation will be normal, and balance will be maintained. Finally, sleep well at night, be energetic during the day, live a regular life, and the disorder of viscera will be improved. Appetite is greatly increased, energy is full, and work efficiency is improved, which seems to have the effect of eliminating all diseases and thoroughly remoulding oneself. Scratching your feet can prevent cancer and detoxify. Science has proved that saliva can prevent cancer. And massage the Yongquan point on the sole of the foot, the saliva will keep pouring out, and the patient will slowly swallow it in small sips, which is of great benefit to the body. In addition, after scratching your feet, drink a cup of cold boiled water to detoxify. According to medical theory: pedicure promotes blood circulation. Drinking water can not only replenish water, but also enhance the excretion of waste toxins. Renal function is improved and metabolism is normal, so people appear light and normal. Scratching the feet of pregnant women to prevent vomiting Some pregnant women have persistent and severe vomiting, even unable to eat, general weakness, obvious emaciation, less urine, dry skin and mucous membranes, sunken eyes and so on. , and must be treated in time, so as not to affect the maternal [this column does not support the chain] and fetal development. Foot massage therapy has a quick effect on this disease. Scratching the soles of your feet can discharge toxins from your body to the maximum extent and make your face glow again. As long as you master a little knowledge of foot massage and persist for a few weeks, you will be surprised to find that your face is white and smooth. For men with acne on their faces, scratching their feet can also eliminate acne. With the development of modern medicine, our understanding of laughter has become more profound.

Laughter is a manifestation of people's happy mood, which is beneficial to health. Laughter is a complex nerve reflex. When a joke from outside becomes a signal, it is introduced into the cerebral cortex through human senses. After receiving the signal, the cerebral cortex will immediately direct the whole body muscles or some muscles to act, so laughter appears.

The little man smiled and smiled. It was just a slight facial muscle movement. Just a smile, that's all.

The big ones are hearty laughter, loud laughter, not only facial muscles, but also vocal organs. Laughing and jumping, even the muscles and bones of the whole body were mobilized.

Laughing on the chest can expand the chest muscles, strengthen the movement of the lungs, and make people breathe normally.

Laughing into the belly, the abdominal muscles contract and open, producing gastric juice in time, helping digestion, stimulating appetite and promoting human metabolism.

Laugh in your heart. The muscles of the blood vessels strengthen the movement. Accelerate blood circulation, make people rosy and energetic.

Laughing all over your body can make all your muscles move. When you are excited, you can relax, get enough sleep and be energetic.

Laughter is also a kind of sport, which is constantly changing and developing. Laughter is big and small; There are far and near; There are high and low; There are thick and thin; There are fast and slow; There is truth and falsehood; Some are clever, some are clumsy; There are soft ones and thick ones; There are bright and clear, delicate; There are realistic and romantic; There is a sneer, a warm smile, and so on. This is the dialectics of laughter.

Laugh and laugh at philosophy.

The essence of laughter is spiritual pleasure.

The phenomenon of laughter is to let smiles and laughter accompany you all your life.

Laughter takes many forms, all the time and everywhere.

Laughter is rich and colorful, including a person's life.

The themes of jokes and jokes abound and can be compiled into an album.

Laughing medicine Laughter can cure diseases. People with neurasthenia should laugh more.

Laughter can relieve muscle tension and prevent pain.

There is a limit to laughter, enough is enough. Patients with hypertension and myocardial infarction should not laugh.

Psychology of laughter. People from all walks of life have their own views on laughter and their own psychological characteristics. The salesperson smiles at the customer, which is a polite smile and makes the customer feel warm.

The politics of laughter. People who do political and ideological work must smile, not keep a straight face.

Laughter pedagogy Confucius said, "It's okay to learn and learn from the times!" This is Confucius encouraging his students to study hard. Reading is a pleasure. At school, we often hear the sound of reading, accompanied by laughter.

The art of laughter. The actors laugh so comfortably and happily that when people watch comedies, burlesque and circus performances, the theater is always full of laughter. Literature with laughter, cross talk is literature with laughter.

Laughter and laughter poems. During the Spring Festival, People's Daily published a poem of laughter. It reads as follows: "When you tore down the first calendar in 198 1, you smiled, smiled and smiled so sweetly, because you firmly believed that the longer the tree of youth was, the more prosperous it was." ? Is it a wish: flower of life is more and more beautiful? Ah! In the grand planning of the motherland's construction in the new year, your smile must be a strong spring scenery. ……"

Laugh, you are a flower on your lips, blooming in the garden around your neck.

You are a cloud on your face, flying in your brow.

You are a beautiful sister and an artist's pet.

You are a lovely companion. There is love in life, and you smile sweeter. Laugh, you are a friend who is cured and healthy.

You are the driving force for work and production.

Laughter is a kind of personal creation, and it is also a manifestation of emotional harmony in collective life.

Laughter is a good thing and an aspect of building socialist spiritual civilization.

My scientific sketches, together with foreign materials, can occupy a place in the encyclopedia of laughter.

Let all mankind have smiles, smiles and laughter, and turn the miserable world into a sea of joy. /