Don't worry, don't yell, don't fight, don't scold, and communicate with your children more.

Don't worry, don't yell, don't fight, don't scold, and communicate with your children more.

When a child does something wrong:

Think for yourself. Do you think you are right? Anyone can do something wrong, and knowing how to change is a good boy. You should apologize to the people you have hurt, and everyone will forgive you. When the children's opinions are different from those of their parents, I will consider your opinions. Have you thought about the consequences of doing so? Let it go, think about it, and discuss it tomorrow. Learn to discuss with children and respect their choices: your mother doesn't agree with your idea, but if you insist on doing it, just do it and stick to it. This road is very difficult, I hope you will think again. You will succeed if you persevere. Mother bless you. When you find your child playing games again:

I'm still angry. I don't want you to do this again, because I believe you. You promised me that you would never come to a place like this again, didn't you? I believe you are a child with strong self-control. I hope you can control yourself.

Stop empty preaching and set an example for yourself;

Starting today, we will do morning exercises every day to see who has more perseverance. You always drag your feet when you get up. Tomorrow, Dad, set an example. How do you think dad cleans up in five minutes? When a child conflicts with others:

If he didn't mean it, we can forgive him: if he did, you should try to make him apologize to you. This is your own business. You can solve it yourself. Mom believes you have this ability. If you quarrel with your classmates, if it is your fault, apologize to them. If you find that your child takes money from home, you must tell your mother when you encounter difficulties, and her mother will definitely help you. No matter where you spend money, you should make it clear. Don't take money from home casually. Although the money is earned by mom and dad, you can use it if you want, but tell mom and learn to keep records. When a child makes a mistake, criticize the child: this is my opinion, and you can also say your opinion. I don't think you did it right. what do you think? While you stick to your point of view, think carefully about the reasons why mom said these words.

When children encounter difficulties:

If you encounter any difficulties, ask XX, and XX will help you find a way together. If you have any difficulties, don't keep them in your heart, just say it and XX will help you solve them. Son, think again, there must be a way. If you have any difficulties, talk to your mother. She will be your advisor. When you grow up, you can help your mother find a way to do something, and your mother can also help you find a way.

When children have conflicts with their parents and silently resist:

You think my method is not good. Do you have anything better? You don't listen to us, which means that you have grown up and have your own ideas, and we are happy about it. Our opinions may not be right, but we can say something. When children argue with you: Let's stop arguing and think calmly 10 minutes. I don't think your idea is right. I hope you can find a few more reasons to convince me. You have a point. I'll think it over. Your idea is very good, but it is difficult to realize now.

When a child asks you for advice:

It's up to you, mom. I believe you will do well. I only remind you of these two points, and you can decide the rest for yourself. Your idea is great. Mom didn't think of it.

When children talk back to their parents:

It is impolite for you to talk to your mother like this. We'll talk when you calm down. I'm glad you have your own opinion, but your attitude makes me feel bad. I heard everything you said. I'll discuss it with you later.

When children encounter setbacks in their studies:

These words are really hard to remember, but don't be discouraged. Let's recite it together and see if mom can remember it. Don't listen to those people. Mom knows you best. You are a very clever boy. There is nothing wrong with slow classes. The important thing is that you should respect yourself. Mom likes you, not only because of your high grades, but also because you are polite. Scores don't mean everything to you, but character is the most important thing. You are laying the foundation for your life now. Only by laying a good foundation can the building of life be built firmly.

When you know that your child's exam results are not ideal:

Son, you are better than last time. I'm so happy for you. If you continue to work hard, you will be as good as Chinese in the next exam! It doesn't matter if you don't do well in the exam this time. We will try our best next time. If you try your best, there will be no regrets if you fail. Did you try your best? As long as you work hard, you will do better!

When children steal from others:

No matter how much you like other people's things, you can't steal them. That will be considered a thief by others. Tell mom what you like, and we can exchange labor. Don't be sad, everyone has done something wrong. After correcting it, we still like you. Mom believes in you and you will do better and better.

When a child commits the same thing many times:

I hope you will pay attention to this matter, and I believe you can do it well. This is your own business, you shouldn't expect others to think of you. Learn to be responsible for yourself before you can be responsible for others.

Don't impose parents' wishes on children;

You don't want to practice the piano anymore. Can you tell me why? I appreciate your talent in painting, and I think it will be a pity if you stop painting. Can you tell mom what you like to do best?

When a child fails and criticizes the child:

You didn't do well in the exam this time, but mom knows you worked hard. When everyone makes mistakes, have time to sum it up. Failure is the mother of success, don't be discouraged.

Words of praise for children:

Boy, you are amazing. You said this sentence very well! Boy, you are amazing. This passage in your composition is wonderful! Boy, you are amazing. Your painting is very spiritual. Son, your handwriting is very neat. When children play games:

I know this is your only hobby, but I'm afraid it will hinder your study. I know you don't want to do this, but you just can't control yourself, but you must know that people who achieve great things must have super self-control ability. Work hard, son! Mom believes you can get rid of this problem.