What kind of emotional experience is unrequited love?

Having a secret crush on someone sometimes feels inexplicably sweet, as if you already have that person, although in fact you can only have a secret crush. That kind of sweetness comes from my own fantasy, such as holding hands with someone I secretly love one day and so on. Sometimes that sweetness is also because of my self-satisfaction, and I feel very happy when I love him.

2. Just like acting.

There is a saying that unrequited love is in place: when I was unrequited love, I was like a director. Indeed, when you secretly love someone, in short, you can direct and act, or you can be an omnipotent king.

For example, we will deliberately create some scenes to let ourselves see several casual encounters with that person, or stay in the place where that person appears, and then pretend to meet by destiny, or their preferences are surprisingly consistent, and so on. Secret admirers are sometimes more talented than famous directors.

3. Much like a psychopath.

When you have a crush on someone, it's like you have a mental illness: suddenly you laugh so hard that you can cry, and suddenly the whole person is sad to drop water, and the standard sad tears flow backwards. Or a person in a daze all day, sometimes, a person is doing it as if he had beaten chicken blood. It's not surprising that someone who secretly loves someone is mildly neurotic.

4. Are you immersed in a dream and unwilling to wake up?

I think during the day and dream at night. When you have a crush on someone, you will definitely see the crush in a midnight dream, and even that figure will toss and turn in the dream all night. After waking up from a dream, look around and think about reality, which will make you very upset and would rather stay in the dream all the time. When you secretly love someone, you are silly and naive, silly and lovely, silly and simple.

5. Become timid?

Obviously, he is a person who dares to fight and rush, but once he secretly loves someone, he becomes timid. Of course, this cowardice is only manifested in the scene with him. In front of that person, all my abilities are gone, including my proud academic qualifications and abilities.

As long as you see someone you secretly love, you dare not speak loudly, dare not express yourself freely, and dare not publicize your personality. In short, I dare not do anything, and I still dare not make a move after thinking about everything.