What did the prospective daughter-in-law say with a smile when she first met her in-laws?

As the saying goes, an ugly daughter-in-law always wants to see her in-laws. I wish she liked it. If she doesn't like it, it's really troublesome. When you meet a sophisticated future mother-in-law, you will pretend to like you if you don't like you, but it will be embarrassing in other places and make you retreat. Although such a future mother-in-law is rare, it also exists. Jingjing in the story met such a future mother-in-law Let's see what happened.

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Jingjing went to her boyfriend's house to meet his parents for the first time. She was very nervous before going, fearing that her future mother-in-law would look down on herself. In order to welcome this mother-in-law, Jingjing not only dressed up specially, but also prepared some gifts in meditation to make the elders both sensible and comfortable. However, Jingjing didn't expect to see this future mother-in-law come back this time, and she has been playing drums in her heart. She doesn't know what this future mother-in-law means.

When I went to my boyfriend's house, my future mother-in-law greeted me with a smile, boasting that they were a good match together, and chatting enthusiastically with Jingjing, which made Jingjing feel that this future mother-in-law was very good, kind and easy to get along with. But the next words of the future mother-in-law made Jingjing unknown so. The future mother-in-law said to Jingjing: Daughter, you and my son are a good match, but my son can focus on his career. I also want him to stabilize his career first and then talk about marriage later. He will get married at the age of 38, which I decided long ago. Hearing her future mother-in-law say this, Jingjing didn't know how to answer the words. Later, she couldn't hear what everyone was saying, and she kept thinking about this sentence.

On the way back from her future mother-in-law's house, Jingjing asked her boyfriend: Your mother said you can't get married until you are 38, and you are only 28 now. I'm as old as you, and I have to wait ten years. Your mother's request is too good. Why didn't you tell me earlier? I will love you for another ten years. How old am I? Can I still have children? Even if I can still have children at that time, I will be an elderly woman, which is very dangerous. My boyfriend said to Jingjing: I just know now. I didn't know my mother thought so. Tell us about ours. If we want to get married, we can steal the household registration book later.

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Jingjing immediately rejected her boyfriend's unreliable suggestion. She replied: What if I can't steal it? The boyfriend went on to say: Anyway, we have been together for a lifetime. Is it really that important to have that piece of paper? I don't think it matters, as long as we always love each other. After listening to her boyfriend's explanation, Jingjing felt that there was some truth and her mood was a little calmer.

However, Jingjing, who came home, still thought more and more strangely. Which mother-in-law doesn't want her son to get married soon? Where would a mother-in-law want her son to get married when he is almost forty? The more she thought about it, the more she could not figure it out. She asked her mother, if the man's family thinks so, does it prove that she doesn't like the girl and wants her to back off? After Jingjing listened, her mother said decisively, That's what I mean. How can a mother let her son get married at 40? This mother is also good enough to pretend to like this girl, but actually she doesn't like it, so let the girl quit by herself! Whose mother is so cruel? It's not your boyfriend's mother, is it?

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Hearing her mother's question, Jingjing answered guiltily: Not my boyfriend's mother, but my best friend's future mother-in-law. I think it's too strange, so I ask you, experienced, whether boys and mothers don't like my best friend. Mom replied again: it must mean this. Forget it. This kind of mother-in-law is very calculating. Just make it clear that she doesn't like this girl, so you won't be the opponent of this mother-in-law after your best friend gets married! Jingjing felt that her mother's analysis was very reasonable and soon answered her mother's words.

Jingjing went back to her room, still thinking about it in her mind. The future mother-in-law certainly doesn't like herself, so she gives herself such a difficult problem. Even if she really married her boyfriend, no matter how resourceful her mother-in-law is, she can't fight it herself, but Jingjing can't bear her boyfriend. She doesn't know how to decide.

Conclusion: To get married, we should not only fall in love with the man in front of us, but also consider the parents and family of the other party and the marriage that parents don't support. It is difficult to live a truly happy life, and girls should remember this. Jingjing's future mother-in-law obviously wants Jingjing to back down, but she doesn't want to show it on the surface and embarrass everyone. This kind of person's means are very clever.

Even if Jingjing can marry her boyfriend, there will be family conflicts in her married life if her mother-in-law doesn't like her. Moreover, Jingjing's boyfriend is naive, immature and irresponsible in dealing with this problem. Although Jingjing loves her boyfriend very much now and doesn't want to give up this relationship, giving up may be a better choice, because facing her mother-in-law who doesn't like her, her future life will be really difficult. It is better not to start than to do so. The world is very big and there are many scenery. Don't hang yourself from a tree. Jingjing can choose to break up and meet her mother-in-law who likes her later, or even if her mother-in-law doesn't like herself that much, her man can be independent, help her shelter from the wind and rain, and get her own mother.