The "generation gap" between college students and their parents is increasing. What embarrassments have you experienced when chatting?

After entering college, do you often chat with your parents? In addition to asking your parents for living expenses, I think many young students will not chat with their parents as often as they did when they were young. Coming to a new environment, not only do you have to deal with study and life, but there are also gradually no topics to talk about between parents. You talk about you and I talk about me. When occasionally chatting with parents, many strange things will inevitably happen. Netizens exposed chat records with their parents. It turns out that chatting can also lead to a lot of jokes.

There are too many reasons for the generation gap, and today’s children also have their own pressures. Homework is becoming increasingly heavy, and parents sometimes add extra work to them, which makes them miserable. They don’t even want to communicate with their families. They have strong resistance. Children cannot understand their parents' feelings, nor can they see problems from their parents' perspective. Only as parents can they give their children a hint that they need to have more contact with society. Today's society is developing rapidly. People born in the 1980s like me say they can’t keep up with the times. They don’t know what life is like for people born in the 1990s. The smallest difference between parents and children is 20 years old.

This gap is self-evident. However, the real problem may be that there is insufficient communication between parents and children. They do not know what their children really want. What, I don’t know what I want to do, and I don’t know how to make my parents happy. College students are already adults. They have their own ideas and independent abilities. They should communicate with their parents calmly. It's best to treat your parents as friends. If there is a dispute, you should first think about what you did bad or wrong. If it is your own problem, you should reflect on yourself and correct your mistakes.

Don’t argue with your parents. If your parents have problems, communicate more, communicate more, and slowly enlighten them. When solving this problem, both parties need to be calm, because being angry cannot solve the problem. Lack of care for their parents, some students fall into the temptation of materialism, cannot extricate themselves, and do not contact their families. Many students do not want to communicate with their parents.