In the end, I hacked my best friend, the wicked woman who was abused by domestic violence. Why?

I remember telling myself firmly that love is sacred and expected. I don't care if the other person has money, not because of the other person's education. Love can overcome all difficulties.

When I was young, I really recognized these ideas. After all, I am still young. Who doesn't feel "affectionate and full of water" But as I get older, I feel that these ideas are not realistic enough.

Indeed, the definition of love has always been sacred. Maybe we watch too many romantic soap operas. We seem to forget that love also comes from life. At the beginning, that kind of "idea in TV series" would only make you miserable.

I received a fan's personal experience about her best friend.

Indeed, people who regard love as everything and ignore reality will be wronged.

My best friend Zhang Yuanyuan (a pseudonym) and I graduated from the same school. It is not a famous university, but it is also a good one.

Zhang Yuanyuan's family is very good, and because he has never suffered since he was a child, he doesn't understand how cruel the reality is. Not long after graduation, she found a boyfriend.

The other person is very good-looking, but I heard that his family is not very good and he graduated from college. I didn't quite agree with this relationship at that time. I think the gap between their family background and education is too big.

Girlfriends like watching movies, but boyfriends think it's enough to go home and look for resources to see the gun version. My best friend's daughter only needs to go to Starbucks for coffee, but her boyfriend always teaches her to drink water. Mineral water is relatively healthy.

The longer the days go by, the more I object to their feelings.

But my best friend just won't listen to me. She thinks she can change all this for love.

Indeed, those girls who live happily since childhood will be less concerned about each other's conditions. They will feel that love is above everything else and ignore some aspects of reality.

Family background and education don't mean everything, but they affect two people's thoughts and views.

Some people will pay attention to the quality of life within their ability. And if the other half thinks these are "waste", then this relationship is doomed to be incomprehensible.

Sometimes in love, "the authorities are fascinated, and the onlookers are clear." It is also reasonable to listen to the opinions of friends around you.

People close to us don't want to suffer hardships and think that we should have a better life. Instead of suffering for love.

My best friend and her boyfriend have been together for a long time, and seldom go out shopping and watch movies with our sisters.

She said that her boyfriend doesn't have that much money, so she should keep the investment. None of us can understand that others are spoiled when they fall in love. How did she become an adopted son ...

Worst of all, once she sent me a WeChat asking me to borrow money.

I was surprised that she was never short of money, and then she told me that she gave her boyfriend this month's salary to buy a mobile phone, and was afraid to tell her family. I broke up with her, and she said, "But I love him very much ..."

I had no choice but to borrow money and chose to let her go.

Although gender equality is advocated now. But emotionally, it needs the joint efforts of both sides.

A boy will work hard, earn money for his beloved girl and give him everything he can. And Zhang Yuanyuan's boyfriend, whose family is not good, doesn't work hard. Instead, he borrowed money from his girlfriend to buy him a mobile phone.

It must be very tiring to be with such a boy. In today's society, girls are already spoiled little princesses. And let a girl "raise a son", it is better to let go of her life.

True love can't go on just by saying "I love him". There are many other factors to consider.

A person who can't give himself happiness and doesn't want to work hard should let go no matter how much he loves.

Once in the middle of the night, my best friend suddenly called me on WeChat. Again, borrow money. I vaguely heard her sobbing and asked her what had happened.

She told me that her salary, savings and even living expenses from her parents were spent on this man. This time her boyfriend wants a computer again, and she really has no money. Her boyfriend punched and kicked her directly and let her find her own way.

She had no choice but to borrow money from me. I was really angry and asked her, "Aren't you going to break up with Tomb-Sweeping Day?" She said, "But I love him, and he says he loves you."

So I, with a cruel heart, turned my account and hacked her WeChat. Indeed, I feel sorry for my best friend, but I'd rather have no contact with her than see her go on like this.

Later, I heard that her boyfriend dumped her and found a legendary "rich woman". But all this has nothing to do with me.

Love is really not like TV series, you can't watch everything. The so-called "full of love and water" is actually self-knowledge. Family and education not only represent the boundaries of everyone, but also represent the gap of this love.

Maybe the other person will try to be better, but if we continue to do nothing like this, it will certainly make us suffer. In fact, when I was a child, I often heard my family say "I care about you, I will take care of you", which is really right.

Only when others care about you will they persuade you. If you really don't care or are disappointed, you will look on coldly like a joke. Many times, we have to listen to other people's suggestions and choose a person who suits us.

We may not fall in love with a better person. In fact, it is human nature to choose better.

What I can't let go may be obsession. The other party did their best, and we can choose to manage this love well.

In fact, it turns out that the other party is really poor and not worthy of our words. No matter how much you love, you must learn to let go.

I hope everyone can meet the right person who loves each other. Not for "love", pain and unwilling to let go.