Can't I spend the night at Huimen's parents' house?

The door-to-door banquet is prepared at the woman's house, which is actually equivalent to the wedding held by the woman. Therefore, the door-to-door banquet is also very important and needs to be well prepared. The bride and groom also need to prepare some door-to-door things. On this day, the groom should dress appropriately, and one of the stresses of the door-to-door banquet is that the bride can't spend the night at her parents' house.

Can I spend the night at my parents' house on the day I return home?

After the couple get married, the groom takes the bride back to her mother's house for the first time, which is called returning home. At this time, her family will prepare a return banquet to entertain her guests. The ancient custom of Huimen is not to stay at home on the day of Huimen, because the new house cannot be empty for a month. However, modern weddings are not so elaborate, and you can stay at your mother's house on the day you return home. But it's best to determine it according to local customs. Don't joke because of your ignorance, know clearly in advance. Returning to China is also very important. This is the first time the bride has returned to her family after marriage. Of course, this also needs the husband's company, but it must be remembered that it is best to go early on this day, because the traditional custom is that the bride and groom should go home early on this day. If it is unlucky to go home after dark, there is also a saying that the bride had better not stay at her parents' house that day.

What's the point of going back to the door

1, return time. For returning to the door, the time of returning to the door is very important. The time to return to the door varies from place to place. Usually on the third, sixth, seventh and eighth day after marriage, there is a full moon to visit relatives. However, with the development of the times, there is no mandatory requirement for the date of returning as long as it is auspicious.

2, wear the back door. Newcomers need to look good when they return home. The bride can't wear a wedding dress when dressing up, but the groom should dress appropriately. After all, it is the first time to go back to my hometown after marriage, so I should leave a good impression on my parents-in-law.

What do you mean, come back from marriage?

In fact, the word Huimen means "going home". Home here refers to the bride's home before her wedding, which is the bride's maiden, so Huimen here means going back to her maiden. In fact, going back to the bride's family means that the bride goes back to her family for the first time after marriage, accompanied by the groom, which is also a kind of etiquette in traditional weddings.