Some people are unwilling to tell others about their divorce, while others are willing to say, what's the difference in mentality?

Divorce is a very sensitive and personal topic, and everyone's mentality and feelings may be different, which also determines whether they are willing to tell others about their divorce experience. The following factors may affect people's mentality:

1. Privacy protection: Some people may pay more attention to privacy protection and think that divorce is a private matter and there is no need to tell others. They may prefer to keep a low profile and avoid unnecessary attention and discussion.

2. Shame: Some people may feel ashamed or embarrassed because they think divorce is a failure or shame. These people may not want others to know that their marriage has broken down, for fear of being laughed at or discriminated against by others.

3. Self-protection: Some people may think that telling others about their divorce will cause unnecessary sympathy or concern, and they may prefer to keep a low profile to avoid unnecessary interference and influence.

4. Share feelings: On the other hand, some people may feel that divorce is a kind of relief and release, and are willing to share their feelings and experiences with others. These people may think that sharing can help them better handle their emotions and feelings, and at the same time get the support and understanding of others.

In short, everyone's mentality and feelings may be different, depending on personal experience, personality and values. Whether you choose to tell others or choose to keep a low profile, you should respect others' choices and don't interfere and comment unnecessarily on others' private lives.