What does your grandmother think of your plan to get Dink?

Your grandmother is very democratic. She didn't interfere with or oppose my dink plan. She just let me figure it out myself. Many people think that "double income no kids" is a very anti-human behavior. In fact, I think it's their choice, and they are quite courageous. Of course, one thing: "Dink" should be a person who pays more attention to self-worth, but it can't be understood as selfishness.

There is a saying about "Dink" on the Internet, which also caused my reflection. That sentence is: "since everyone and all the media are condemning those who have children regardless of their parents, it is a pity that they can become parents if they fail to pass the exam;" Then you must understand that no one is qualified to condemn and force those who choose Dink, because they know they can't afford this responsibility. "

I have to say, parents don't need exams the most. Some people become bear parents after giving birth to children, and some people give birth to children without care. If so, it may not be a good choice for children to come into this world. On the other hand, some people who don't want children may be more cautious, afraid that they can't take care of their children and have no confidence to take this responsibility. If that's why I understand them.

Everyone has a diversified life. Some people are afraid that they can't take care of their children, so they choose to be "Dinks", while others pay more attention to their own feelings and choose to be "Dinks". It is more appropriate to use a sentence from my grandmother: "If you live your life alone, just choose not to regret it." In fact, whether you want to be a "dink" depends on your husband and wife's choice. Think it over before making a decision. Once you make a decision, you have to take responsibility.

Talk about two people's views on having children before marriage. If one party insists on "Dink" and the other party doesn't want to, then don't get married directly. Don't be wronged by this. Still have to be careful, two people have to negotiate. Think clearly if you want children, and be responsible if you want them; Those who insist on "Dink" should also think clearly. A person has a living method and can bear it for himself without regrets.