Ordinary life often contains a lot of truth, and a lot of scientific discoveries and theoretical innovations are inspired by small and universal phenomena.

Knowledge itself does not tell people how to use it, but the way to use it is outside books-Bacon's life is the source of knowledge and the treasure house of composition materials. Reading all good books means talking to many noble people-Descartes' wisdom in life probably lies in asking why when something happens-Balzac should be good at thinking, thinking and rethinking when learning knowledge. That's how I became a scientist-Einstein's knowledge is as valuable as human blood. Without blood, people will be weak; Without knowledge, one's mind will dry up-Gao Shiqi, when you lose knowledge, don't lose the lesson. Don't let a little dispute lose a friendship. A caring family atmosphere is the foundation of your life. "You can't have your cake and eat it." The Analects of Confucius is from Mencius, and it looks good everywhere. For our eyes, it is not the lack of beauty, but the lack of discovery-Rodin, I jump on books like a hungry man on bread-Gorky (1) Simple joy There is a little girl who walks from home to school every day. One morning, the weather was not very good and the clouds gradually thickened. In the afternoon, the wind blew harder, and soon there was thunder and lightning and heavy rain. The little girl's mother is worried. She is worried that the little girl will be scared by thunder, or even hit by it. Thunderstorm is getting bigger and bigger, and lightning pierces the sky like a sword. The little girl's mother drove quickly and looked for her along the route to school. Seeing her little daughter walking alone in the street, she found that every time there was lightning, she would stop, look up and smile. After watching for a long time, the mother finally stopped the child and asked her, "What are you doing? She said, "God just took my picture, so I want to laugh! (2) Losing and owning an entrepreneur has made amazing achievements in business. When he reached the peak of his career, one day he accompanied his father to a noble restaurant for dinner, and a violinist with extraordinary piano skills was playing for everyone. While listening to the music, the entrepreneur remembered that he had studied the piano and was almost crazy about it. He said to his father, "If I had studied the piano well, I might be playing here now." "Yes, son," his father replied, "but in that case, you wouldn't be eating here now. Meditation: We often lament the lost opportunities or achievements, but often forget to be grateful for what we have now. There is a clever boy who knows his "limited" cleverness. One day, his mother took him to the grocery store to buy things. When the boss saw the lovely child, he opened a can of candy and let the little boy take a handful of candy by himself. But the boy didn't make any action. After several invitations, the boss personally grabbed a handful of sugar and put it in his pocket. When I got home, my mother asked the little boy curiously, why didn't I grab the candy myself and let the boss do it? The little boy replied beautifully, "because my hands are smaller!" Moreover, the boss has bigger hands, and he must take a lot more than me! Meditation: This is a clever boy. He knows his own limitations, and more importantly, he also knows that others are better than himself. Learning to rely on others in a timely manner, rather than relying on your own strength, is a kind of humility and intelligence. (4) The Art of Listening The famous American host "linklater" visited a child one day and asked him, "What do you want to be when you grow up? The child naively replied, "Well ... I want to be an airplane pilot! Linklater then asked, "What would you do if one day your plane flew over the Pacific Ocean and all the engines died?"? The child thought for a moment: "I will tell the people sitting on the plane to fasten their seat belts first, and then I will hang up my parachute and jump out." "When the audience laughed stagger, linklater continue to look at the child, want to see if he is a smart guy. Unexpectedly, then two lines of tears welled up in the child's heart, which made linklater realize that the child's sympathy was far beyond words. So linklater asked him, "Why did you do this? The child's answer revealed a child's sincere thought: "I'm going to get fuel, I want to come back!" " ! "I want to come back! When you hear someone talking ... do you really understand what he is saying? You got it? If you don't understand, please listen to others. This is the art of listening. In addition, don't project your meaning on what others say. (5) Enlightenment of Walking God gave me a task to take a snail for a walk. I can't walk too fast, the snail has tried his best to climb, always moving a little at a time. I urged it, I bluffed, I blamed it, and the snail looked at me apologetically, as if to say, "I have tried my best!" " I pulled, I pulled, and I even wanted to kick it. The snail is hurt. It is sweating and panting, and it is strange to climb forward. Why does God want me to take a snail for a walk? Jesus Christ. Why? "The sky was quiet." Alas! Maybe God went to catch snails! "all right! Let me go. God doesn't care anyway. What do I care? Let the snail crawl forward, and I will sulk in the back. Huh? I smell the flowers. There used to be a garden here. I feel the breeze blowing. The wind at night is so gentle. Wait! I hear birds, I hear insects, and I see the stars in the sky with how bright. Huh? Why haven't you had these experiences before? It occurred to me that I was wrong! It turned out that God asked snails to take me for a walk. Did you find your snail? Go for a walk once in a while! You can really feel at ease. Milan Kundera has a book called Living on the Other Side. I have a good association with these five words. Our life is always far away, and everyone is thinking: if I have money tomorrow, I can. But if you earn less money now and are unhappy, even if you have more money, I guarantee that you will not be happy; If you don't have fun when you are alone, even if you marry someone and marry a wife! Others are as unhappy as you; If you don't know how to enjoy life now, you won't enjoy life in the future. Someone asked what is freedom? Freedom means that you can refuse a person's date without any reason. You have the right to live your life and go where you want to go. In fact, life is very simple. Both men and women like to set a time limit for their lives. For example, I have to get married at the age of 25, have children at the age of 26, have a man and a woman at the age of 30, and have a house at the age of 3 1, so many decisions are hasty. If the person you are looking for is wrong from the beginning, no matter how hard you try in the future; Sometimes, we often feel that when we get married, all our problems are gone. If we still have problems when we get married, we should give birth to the baby as soon as possible. In fact, your problem is not solved at this stage, and it will only become bigger in the next stage. You don't have to expect too much from the future ... to be honest, your frustration will be deep. It's better to see what you are doing now, which will make you feel comfortable and absorb a lot of things, and then you will feel that life is really full. In addition, if one tries too hard to show others, it will be extremely painful. Today, if you believe that you are doing well and don't care what others think of you, you can really feel at ease. (7) patience is not enough. I have a friend who once had a fortune of hundreds of millions. When the stock market crashed, he suddenly collapsed. For a time, he was very depressed, his cholesterol and blood pressure were surprisingly high, and he suffered from severe depression. Recently, I met them in a department store. They were looking at crystal glass with bright smiles on their faces. " "I can't afford it," he told me with a smile. I have sold all my previous collections, but just look at the things in the window and enjoy them. I often see political celebrities on TV. In his early years, he was imprisoned for more than 20 years because of dissent, but when others were eager to get justice from the old government, he didn't. He always wears a natural and unrestrained smile, even his eyes are smiling, and he can't see any hostility or resentment. "Patience is not enough to deal with persecution, but forgiveness. People can have spiritual wealth without greedy thoughts. Only by replacing hatred with forgiveness can people have spiritual peace. (8) Don't lose your life. Ben met a young man who just got his doctorate from MIT. " "It's really not easy," I praised him. You can make good use of your ambition after you get your doctorate from MIT. ""Yes, I must hurry, or I will lose a lot. " "A great loss? "I don't quite understand what he said." "Yes," he said with a smile. Let's see, I am 28 years old. It took 28 years from birth to getting a degree, learning to sit, crawl, walk and speak, in primary school, middle school and university. I have also consumed the resources of my parents and society for 28 years! "With a sigh:" but, calculate the following, how many years? People like us who engage in cutting-edge technology may not be able to work for 28 years if they don't keep working hard. By the time I am 56, I will be out of date. "Isn't it? Let me calculate, the original reward for learning is quite limited. Take this doctor as an example. One year's study is only equivalent to the next year's study and one hour's return. No wonder he said, "I have to start quickly." The moment I graduated is the moment I started. In the next 28 years, I will make good use of the past 28 years to get even, and I will not lose money in my life. (10) Stop running ... Russian writer Tolstoy wrote a short story: There was a farmer who cultivated a small piece of wasteland every morning, but he got little; An angel sympathized with the farmer's situation and told him to give him all the places he ran, no matter how big, as long as he kept running. So, the farmer ran forward excitedly and kept running! Tired of running, I want to stop and have a rest. However, when I think of my wife and children at home, I need more land to farm and make money! So, he ran like hell again! Really tired, the farmer is out of breath and can't run! However, the farmer thought that he might be too old to take care of him and need money later, so he pulled himself together and ran as fast as he could, regardless of his panting body! Finally, he was exhausted, and with a bang, he lay dead on the ground! Indeed, people living in the world must work hard; However, when we keep "running forward" and "desperately making money" for ourselves, for our children and for a better job, we should also clearly realize that sometimes it is time to "run back"! Because, my wife and three children are eagerly waiting for you to come back! "Run back, come back! If you don't "run back", maybe everyone will never see each other again! (1 1) Invite your new girlfriend to eat western food and go to a feast of life. " That's it, "she gently pointed with her little hand." Clean up the meal. " The appetizer came and she swept it away. When the soup comes, it will bottom out at once. The salad came and she swallowed it one by one. The appetizer for the main course came up, and she ate slowly and ate half. The main course is being served, and she has touched her chest and gasped: "I am so full. "This kind of girl may not have seen the world. She doesn't want to treat you like Kai Zi, but she doesn't know how to order. On the contrary, if that girl eats a little of everything and only chooses her favorite entrance, it may not be easy. She must be a well-informed girl enough to repair your poor little boy. If you are a girl and love the boy who invited you to dinner, please don't murder his wallet, please be less. But on the contrary, life is like a feast. If you want to live as fully as possible, you should learn from a young lady who knows how to eat a whole meal. You have to taste it bit by bit, and once you have tasted it, you will never use it again; Never ignore what should be the main course. The feast of life is God's hospitality. He put the "menu of heaven and earth" in front of your eyes, and you can order it. You can be ambitious and order a full Italian meal. Just don't know how to choose, don't know how to give up. In the process of serving this big meal of life, if you swallow everything you see, you will become more and more tired and bid farewell to this big meal early. Look at how many successful people in this world are still sitting at the table of his life feast in their later years, tasting the last dessert and the wine after dinner. When you envy them, you must first tell yourself-"They can eat all the feasts of life because they know how to choose. They know to eat less in front of people, instead of wolfing down. "12) The friends of Clownfish and Anemone unanimously praised raiders of the lost ark. I like watching cartoons and documentaries about marine life in DiscoveryChannel, so I have every reason to go to the theater instead of waiting for the publication of VCD. The first shot took the audience into the deep sea, because it was a high-definition animation, which was more rippling than a real documentary. I exclaimed, "Clownfish and anemones! Friend F wondered, "Why do you recognize these marine creatures at a glance? The movie was on at that time, so I couldn't throw away my schoolbag. My admiration for clownfish and anemones is not entirely due to the vividness of computer animation; But for the subtle symbiotic relationship between these two creatures. Anemone tentacles can secrete chemicals to stab passing fish, which is its way of hunting and protecting itself. It can't only stab clownfish, because clownfish has a layer of mucus, which is immune to the poison of anemones, and this kind of fish eats everything to help clean anemones, so anemones let clownfish live in it. A wicked villain will always meet someone who has a soft spot for him, just like an anemone meets a clown fish, but what is the reason why he has a soft spot? On the contrary, I have met great men who are very hard on a family? For example, a mother is very strict with her children, or a husband is very picky about his wife, but one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. Whether it is love or special, whether it is happiness or pain, this subtle relationship will last. (13) A young painter lived in a narrow little house and made a living by painting portraits before he became famous. One day, a rich man passed by and saw his meticulous painter. He likes it very much and asks him to draw a portrait for him. Both parties agreed to reward 1 10,000 yuan. A week later, after the portrait was finished, the rich man came to pick up the painting as promised. At this time, the rich man had evil thoughts in his heart, deceiving him that he was young and not famous, and refused to pay according to the original agreement. The rich man thought, "The portrait in the painting is me. If I don't buy this painting, no one will. Why should I spend so much money on it? So the rich man acquiesced and said that he only spent 3000 yuan on this painting. The young painter froze. He has never encountered such a thing, and he is a little flustered. He spent a lot of time arguing with the rich, hoping that the rich could keep the agreement and be a trustworthy person. "I can only spend three thousand yuan to buy this painting, so don't bother. The rich man thinks he has the upper hand. Finally, let me ask you, do you want to sell 3000 yuan? The young painter was very angry when he learned that the rich man deliberately defaulted on his debts. He said firmly, "Not for sale. I would rather not sell this painting than be humiliated by you. If you break your promise today, you will have to pay twenty times the price in the future. " "Joke, 20 times, is 200000! I won't be stupid enough to spend 200 thousand on this painting. " "Well, we'll see. The young painter said to the rich man who left angrily. Stimulated by this incident, the painter stayed away from this sad place and resumed his apprenticeship, practicing hard day and night. God helps those who help him. After more than ten years, he finally broke into a world and became a famous figure in the art world. What about the rich man? After leaving the studio, I forgot the painter's paintings and words the next day. Until that day, several friends of the rich man came to tell him, "Good friends! One thing is so strange! These days, we went to visit an exhibition of a famous artist. One of the paintings is a figure exactly like you, and the price is 200,000. Funnily enough, the title of this painting turned out to be-thief. The rich man seems to have been hit on the head, and he thinks of the painter more than ten years ago. This incident hurt him so much that he immediately rushed to the young painter overnight to apologize to him and spent 200 thousand to buy back the portrait. Youth's indomitable ambition makes the rich bow their heads. The young man's name is Picasso, which gives us an inspiration: people should live up to expectations, don't be discouraged, take setbacks as a ladder, work hard, and finally realize their ideals and fulfill their wishes. Can you believe it? No one can humiliate and defeat you, except yourself. (14) I hope you can share the small crack in the bucket with your friends. Once upon a time, a rich man hired a housekeeper. The housekeeper uses two buckets to fetch water from a well two miles outside the house every day. One bucket is intact and the other bucket has a small crack. Therefore, even if the housekeeper is full of two buckets of water, he will only have one and a half buckets of water when he returns to his master's house. After a while, the defective bucket was unhappy, so he said to the housekeeper, "I feel very unhappy because you miss half of the water from me every day." If you don't get scolded by your host, you have to make more trips. I'm really useless. Why do you still use me? " The housekeeper then showed the defective bucket the next time she went to fetch water. It turns out that the roadside is full of beautiful flowers. Many times, the housekeeper will pick these flowers to decorate the master's room and make the master happy. The housekeeper told the bucket that it was because she saw its problems that some flower seeds were planted on the roadside, and the roadside was full of beautiful flowers. So even if the bucket has its defects, it can still bring value to the world. The problem is how to make full use of its usefulness! This story has been circulating in e-mail. One of them, a woman who is considering ending her life, changed her mind and gave up the idea of sudden death because she saw this story. I hope you can share it with your friends. Maybe you can save many lives directly or indirectly. (15) McDonald's opened a new McDonald's near my home. The dazzling M-sign immediately became an obvious indicator, whether it was to guide the driver in the car or the roundworm in the stomach. And I, because I have been studying outside, have never had a chance to set foot in this world-class snack-McDonald's, which is only 100 meters away from my home. Until that day, the day I went home, my mother happened to go back to Penghu, and my sister went to Tainan to attend a friend's wedding reception. The food is always delicious, and the kitchen is suddenly empty. I'm the only one left in such a big home. So, I made up my mind to step into Dahuang M, McDonald's next door to my house. Pushing open the door, it was still so clean and refreshing. Uncle McDonald greeted me with a kind smile. So, I ordered the No.1 meal, found a window seat very easily and happily, ate a delicious hamburger, and thought about why McDonald's became popular in Taiwan Province Province. Because McDonald's marketing strategy is aimed at "children". There is no greater wish than a child's smile. Suddenly, I saw two people, and they caught my attention instantly. Because they don't go with this neat new building at all. They are a father and son. Father's yellow shirt has a hole in the east and a hole in the west, and it is covered with oil stains of gasoline or black oil. His face is slightly thin, especially his sun-baptized skin, which makes him look weather-beaten. If I guess correctly, he should be a worker. Compared with his father, the child is not too thin, but compared with any child running around with a plane in McDonald's, he is too dark and too small. Two people, slowly walked into McDonald's, from their hesitant pace and look around attitude, we can guess that they should be coming to this fast food restaurant for the first time. "We want a French fries, a coke and two pork burgers ..." Father stammered, "The total is *** 150 yuan. The clerk's face is still McDonald's signature smile. "150 yuan? Ok ... ok ... "My father lowered his head and kept digging in his pocket with that black and dirty hand, tinkling, and a bag of copper coins was scattered on the white dining table. Father took the coin and counted it slowly. "10 yuan, 20 yuan, 30 yuan, 40 yuan, 50 yuan, 55 yuan, 56 yuan ..." The clerk remained calm and smiled, waiting for the customer to count the change in his hand. But I have seen several young people behind them, showing impatient expressions. Suddenly, the child who stopped talking at first pulled his father's dirty shirt and shouted, "Dad, I want that car, others want that car ..." "Car toys?" My father squinted at the toy and turned to ask the clerk, "How much does it cost to add this toy?" "50 yuan. The clerk's voice rose slightly. I don't know whether to remind my father that the change in his hand may not be enough to pay, or to let him back down. Father didn't speak, but he showed an embarrassed expression. A few wrinkles were squeezed out of his dark forehead, but a wry smile floated around his mouth. This expression is so profound. I almost can't help but want to put down the hamburger and take out the fifty dollars still in my pocket. But in the end, I didn't move because I wanted to know my father's choice. " Then ... miss, I'm sorry ... I don't want that hamburger, just a hamburger. The clerk hesitated and quickly pressed the change button. A hamburger that my father may have eaten only once in his life turned into a toy car. At this time, my father counted the money. He put away the two or three small changes left on the table and picked up the wooden tray in one hand. Hold the child's hand with the other hand. Walking slowly to their seats, I saw the pride of being a father at that moment. Originally QuLou body, suddenly become tall and straight. His children were very excited. They kept jumping, laughing, whining about cars and playing with his new toys. I secretly looked at them with my eyes open. My father didn't eat anything, just hung a satisfied smile, watching the excited children, playing with toys for a while, catching French fries for a while, and tasting this hard-won food in various positions. I watched quietly, and suddenly found that I had to find a place, find a pen, maybe the internet, and record my father's expression at that time. He squinted at the children in front of him very carefully. The wrinkles on his forehead tightened again, but this time, he really smiled. No more wry smile. But a very satisfied smile. Why can McDonald's be popular all over the world? Because of the love of parents, it can sweep the world. I seemed to feel his satisfaction, lowered my head and finished my hamburger with a smile. After eating my hamburger, I finally took out fifty dollars from my pocket and went to the counter. "Please give me another Korean ..." I was giving a speech, but I found that ... the young salesgirl had taken out a freshly baked hamburger from behind, smiled at me, and then left the counter and walked to the table where father and son were sitting. When she passed me, she didn't forget to wink wittily. "This hamburger has been reserved. (16) locks and keys The most sophisticated electronic locks and keys in the world have finally come out! All bought by a rich man. Locks and keys are proud of their identity and status. One day, the lock said to the key, "Hey! Look! How can you live today without me? " "Really? You lost me? This is just a pile of rubbish! " The key says ha ~ ha ~ ha! What will happen without me guarding the master's property? Think with your bean head! "Locke proudly said that waste is waste, and I don't know what to think! Without my guidance, would you know how to open and close your clumsy latch? Think with your straw brain! The key won't open in the lock; In this way, they quarreled until everyone ignored each other. One day, the rich owner finally couldn't open the door of the electronic lock, broke it with a screwdriver without saying anything, and then discarded the electronic lock and the electronic key together. He stopped believing in troublesome electronic locks and replaced them with traditional old-fashioned locks. The electronic lock and the electronic key, which were originally a perfect fit, ended up like this because of their own opinions ... Have you ever met a perfect fit? Have you ever trusted each other deeply? Why did it end like this? Is it just fate? Have you really reflected? Have you really thought about it? Fate once bound you together tightly. You are a perfect combination, and we can freely enter and leave each other's inner world. Since then, we have a sophisticated electronic lock in our hearts? When the heart is heavy and heartbroken, we will be loyal to ourselves to solve others; A simple action, a simple words, will be a seamless perfect combination to blow up a fragmented; Fate suddenly turned into a fragile trick ... we no longer trust each other! It's not that the other party can't trust, nor that fate can't trust, but that we can't trust ourselves anymore. Now, you can think about it. Is everything really God's will? (17) The story of the gecko In Japan, a real thing happened: someone tore down the wall to decorate the home; The walls of Japanese houses are usually covered with wooden boards in the middle and mud on both sides, but in fact they are empty inside. When he pulled down the wall, he found a gecko trapped there. A nail hammered in from the outside was nailed to the gecko's tail. When the man saw it, he felt very poor and curious. He looked at the nail carefully. Oh, my God! That nail was nailed when the house was built ten years ago. What the hell is going on? That gecko has been trapped in the wall for ten years! It's not easy to hide the wall for ten years. Isn't that right? He went on to think, this kind of tail has been nailed to death. How did the gecko who couldn't get out survive this decade? So he temporarily stopped the decoration project: "What does it eat?" He wants to find out. Before long, another gecko came out of nowhere with food in its mouth … Ah! He froze for a moment. What kind of feeling is this? For the gecko that can't walk because of its tail, the other gecko has been holding food for ten years. After listening to this, I was very moved. I really didn't think about their relationship: parent-child, friend, opposite sex, brother ... In human society, with the popularization of computers, people can get relevant information faster, but is the distance between people getting closer and closer? People should be useful, not just decent people who are bad to others. Excerpt from Peanut