Fore: The pain of being born in a family was cured by her husband's love.

Recently, Fu Seoul sent a long article. Accompanied by her husband Lao Liu, the article expresses her views on love and married life.

Thanks to my husband Lao Liu for his silent dedication. Once again, I was moved by the love of Fu Seoul Lao Liu, which was plain and real.

Fu Seoul was an unknown writer before attending The Story of Chipa, but he got angry on Chipa's stage. Thunderbolt's way of debating made many viewers remember her.

Fu Seoul said that she had been in love many times. Among them, there are many scholars, gifted scholars and even rock youths who have talked about it. But these relationships are fruitless.

Recalling these sweet love times, I always hear words like "I love you deeply", but the original love story turned into a joke when I broke up.

If she hadn't met Lao Liu, she might never get married in her life. Perhaps Fu Hancheng's previous mistakes will lead to new experiences. Fate is neither too early nor too late, just right.

Husband Lao Liu, 10 years, has always maintained a constant initial heart. Until now, she still silently supports her career, knows how to recognize her, knows how to feel distressed, and understands Fu Seoul.

Buffett once said that the most important investment in my life is not which stock I bought, but who I chose as my partner.

Fu Hancheng's childhood was unfortunate. Her parents divorced and her mother took her to live. Life is very difficult. After her mother remarried and got a new home, Fu Seoul was fostered in her grandmother's house.

Mother has a new family and started a new life, so she seldom has time to go to Foer. Every time I miss my mother, she can only drink detergent and eat other people's bubble gum to make herself sick, so that she can have a chance to see her mother. I miss my mother only by "making myself sick" to meet my yearning mother, which is too pitiful.

Adler said: lucky people are cured by childhood all their lives, and unfortunate people are cured by childhood all their lives.

Fu Seoul's childhood made it difficult for her to trust others. Until she met Lao Liu, who had the same temper as her, Lao Liu touched Fu Seoul with details, warmed her heart and made her believe in love and marriage without hesitation.

Good love is a good medicine, which can heal the wounds of birth, the family of birth, the pain in the first half and the changes in the second half.

There is no denying that Fu Seoul and Lao Liu don't talk about love, but they are both hidden in each other's hearts. Fu Seoul and Lao Liu are husband and wife, but they are both willing to pay for each other, and they get along with each other in an easy-going and comfortable way.

The warmth and coldness of marriage can't be felt by others, and the biggest feeling is only yourself. Many "widowed marriages" only provide you with money, ignore your concern and can't accompany you. This kind of marriage is not necessarily suitable for everyone, nor is it worth pursuing by many people.

Envy this kind of love. If you love it, you will be together. If you don't love it, you will plan to talk about it. Warm people are warm anyway, and have seen too many bad marriages and tears. This is the most comfortable way to fall in love.

Fu Seoul is a person who lacks love. What she needs is not the skills of the other half. What she needs more is the affirmation and recognition of the other half. She has her own abilities.

Fu Seoul grew up in an unfortunate childhood, his personality was always denying himself, and his mood was sometimes very negative. But when they met, Lao Liu gave her enough affirmation and gradually became confident and gentle.

In the eyes of outsiders, Lao Liu is the kind of natural salted fish physique, with no money and no ambition, and looks generally bald. However, Fu Hancheng chose to marry him.

Fu Hancheng's husband Lao Liu is not enterprising, but his love for his wife is uncompromising. Knowing that his wife is enterprising, she always leaves a lamp for her when she comes home late. The big and small things at home have been arranged, so she doesn't have to worry about it. Just do a good job outside, relax at home and feel the warmth of the family. Show your support for your wife's career with actions.

A good relationship must be that one party is willing to pay and the other party knows how to tolerate.

I firmly believe that a good partner can cure the family's pain. A little self-confidence will change your attitude towards life, and a little inferiority may make you want to escape and feel unworthy of his goodness.

Putting down your guard and getting along gently is the highest expression of emotional intelligence.

Wang Leyan once said that marriage is a technical job, so a man should be a big shot in his own mind or in the world, not in other aspects.

Marriage is not a fairy tale, but real life.

You should learn to accept family of origin's unhappiness. There is a line in the TV series that everything is fine. You can choose not to forgive or let go.

When we are confused by the pain of being born in a family, we can try several ways to alleviate it:

1. Your life is in your own hands. You should learn to say goodbye to your old self and welcome your new one.

2. Read more books. As the saying goes, the book has its own golden house. Learn to find answers and enrich yourself.

If you are financially independent and have the right to choose, you have enough courage to choose the life you like.

For many people who have been hurt by their families, it is really a big problem to ask them to forgive and let go completely. We can only say that we should try to change. After all, life goes on, instead of being miserable, blaming others and blaming parents.

It is better to change yourself and know yourself. Let yourself out of the shadow of the family and learn to reconcile with your parents.

I once read a sentence on the Internet: "Everyone wants to be born in a good family, but they can't choose their parents. You can only play it as well as possible. "

Although everyone can't choose to come from a family, we can still live a wonderful life and be a warm and loving person.