What do you mean by hidden rules? What are the hidden rules in life?

Some hidden rules that the old leaders in the market told me privately, full of dry goods, are definitely a treasure house for promotion and salary increase in the workplace. I really knew it early and benefited early!

Rule 1: Remember that choice is greater than effort.

Traditional education teaches people to be diligent, hardworking and brave from an early age!

It is under the influence of this idea that many people study hard from the beginning of school, in order to get good grades in a good university!

However, after entering the workplace, I found that this set doesn't work!

Because the most important thing in this world is hard-working people! You think you are working hard, someone must work harder than you!

This is another meaning that one mountain is higher than another.

Since everyone works so hard, there is naturally no sense of superiority to stand out from the crowd. In this case, how can we realize the desire of promotion and salary increase early enough?

Therefore, hard work is very important, and choice is more important than hard work!

Choose to enter an industry, choose to enter a department, choose to follow the direction chosen by a leader, and you will be able to overtake in corners faster and easier!

You say, is this true?

Rule 2: Don't get too close to any leader of the company.

Although it is said that "someone in the DPRK is easy to handle affairs", being too close to any leader in a complex workplace means that you have a general relationship with anyone, who is neither trustworthy nor easily rebellious.

No matter what your position is, no matter how much you admire a leader, don't get too close to him. Once the relationship is too close, it is easy to be regarded as his person and become the object of being used and sacrificed, which will bring immeasurable losses to his career!

As long as you grasp these two essences, you will be like a duck to water in the workplace and get everything you want!

What do you mean by hidden rules?

It refers to an invisible, unspoken and established rule, but it is widely recognized and actually works, and people must "follow".

"Hidden rules" are relative to "meta-rules" and "explicit rules"

It refers to an invisible, unspoken and established rule, but it is widely recognized and actually works, and people must "follow".

Mr. Wu Si, who created the concept of "hidden rules", said that the so-called "hidden rules" are "rules that are hidden under formal rules but actually dominate the operation of China society".

For example, the hidden rules of the entertainment circle refer to the pornographic transactions between some stars and directors.

As for the "hidden rules", we don't rule out that there are reasonable places, that is, let reasonable places "surface", and everyone just * * * abides by them, and don't let reasonable and unreasonable places "dive". For the superior, it is to be independent and not to act according to the "hidden rules". For the society, we should vigorously advocate the awareness of rules and resolutely oppose the awareness of "hidden rules".

What are the hidden rules in life?

1, the opposite sex car, can't take the co-driver.

Don't ask others for money in the early morning.

Nothing is particularly important. Don't call anyone before 9 am and after 9 pm.

4. Go to other people's homes, not empty-handed, especially families with children.

5. Go to someone else's house to play. If the host yawns again and again, don't stay any longer. Please leave quickly.

6. When the lover says "My mother doesn't agree with us", don't ask why. Generally speaking, when it comes to this, TA is marrying someone else.

7. Don't talk too long when you meet acquaintances on the road. Everyone has his own career, and the relationship should be controlled within 3 minutes.

8. Ask your best friend's husband for something, and let your best friend talk to her husband, instead of looking for someone else's husband directly, even if you have already made friends with each other.

9. During the interview, the personnel department told you to go back and wait for the notice, which is basically equivalent to telling you that you were not hired.

10, when you borrow money from others, the other person says that he doesn't care, and if you want to ask your wife/husband, you will be rejected.

1 1. Ask others the same question twice, prevaricate every time, don't ask it a third time, they don't want to teach you.

12, when there is only one snack left in the office drawer, put it in the bag and take it home. If you eat in the office and don't share it with your colleagues, who will take care of you in the future?

13, married women should not go back to their parents' home for the New Year and have a confinement, or their brothers will have a hard time because of you.

14, living in the countryside, please don't go to a happy event, and come uninvited for nothing.

15, no matter how hospitable, don't use used chopsticks to pick up food for others. There are a lot of bacteria in your mouth, which is very unsanitary.

16. My parents still live in the countryside. When you go back to your hometown, you should bring more gifts to visit and get on well with your neighbors. Only when parents are in trouble will others be willing to help.

17. If you need to invite friends/colleagues of the opposite sex for help at home, you should inform your partner in advance.

18, don't give work advice to the leader, no leader will really like a subordinate with better ability than TA.

19, don't reach out to pick up other people's cigarettes if you don't want to smoke.

20. Don't drink when eating with friends of the opposite sex. People who harm civil air defense are indispensable.

2 1, after falling in love, especially after marriage, don't get too close to other members of the opposite sex to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding.

22. Take someone else's long-distance bus and take the initiative to pay the gas fee. If you can't get a chance to refuel, you have to pay for the meal.

23. What colleagues can't handle happens to be their own expertise. If the other person doesn't ask you, don't take the initiative to help, lest others say that you show IQ behind your back.

24. Don't praise another child in front of the child, it will make the listener jealous, and the praised person will be innocent and wronged.

If you want to succeed again, don't fuck your boss or betray the company's business secrets. Even if you have money, others will look down on you.

26. No matter how bad your old company is to you, don't say in your new company that if someone asks about the reason for leaving, the contract will always expire.

27. Don't let your mother and mother-in-law take care of your daughter-in-law in confinement together, which will turn your in-laws into enemies.

28. The apprentice is smart and sensible. Don't pass on the core technology to TA until he retires.

29. Old people should not inquire about the income of young people, and young people should not care about their pensions.

30, hearsay, don't make a second spread, in case it is inaccurate, it will damage your image.

3 1. Don't mention the news received at the meeting to anyone as long as it is not officially announced.

32. If you can't pay others back on time, you should inform them in advance. Don't keep silent until someone asks.

When someone toasts you, you must stand up. If the other person is a leader or elder, you should lower your glass.

Don't say it's a quality problem when returning goods, especially when there are other customers.

35. Don't scold your husband in front of your parents-in-law.

36. Leaders often talk about the opposite sex. If you like it again, don't chase it.

37. When a friend invites you to dinner, remember to invite you next time. This is called reciprocity.

38. If you don't love each other deeply, don't accept his gifts, especially those with higher value. Accepting them is tantamount to acquiescence in your relationship.

39. When communicating with people in public, it is advisable to control the voice so that only the two of you can hear clearly. Don't talk in public, it will bring trouble to others.

40. It is inconvenient not to visit relatives back and forth within one day. Book a hotel in advance and don't stay with relatives.

4 1, it's the first time to go to your boyfriend's house, so don't do housework in a hurry. At this time, you are a guest, and your posture should be good.

You must keep your promise to others, so when you help others, you should try your best to lower their expectations. If you can't do it, you won't be criticized.

43. Don't tell the world that you didn't succeed. If you fail, you will be regarded as the object of discussion after dinner.

44. Giving gifts to leaders should be taken by the way, not chosen on purpose.

45. Don't pay attention to those who only send "Are you there" on WeChat. They don't borrow money, and they can't pay it back in time without lending you money.

46. At the end of the semester and the end of the college entrance examination, others don't take the initiative to tell you your child's grades and never ask.

What are the common hidden rules?

1. When asking for help, you should come straight to the point. Too many pleasantries will make the other person disgusted.

2. If the relationship is very good, don't always say "thank you", it will seem distant.

3. In the countryside, you still have to have a son.

4. Be a bridesmaid, don't dress up too beautifully and don't steal the bride's thunder.

When treating guests, don't go to the toilet after dinner if you don't want others to misunderstand.

6, the couple quarrel, even if the quarrel is fierce, they should shut up as soon as they get on the bus.

7. When talking to people, don't just listen to the surface. The important thing is to be able to hear the words in each other's words. There is an old saying: "Listen to the voice when you are obedient."

8, don't break the casserole to ask the end, the other party's silence is to refuse to answer.

9. If you promise others, you must work hard. Listen to what others promise you.

10, there is no absolute right or wrong in everything, just different views and positions.

1 1. If a man's condition is average, don't find a too beautiful woman as a wife.

12, next time, another day, turn around, as long as you don't say the specific time, don't take it seriously, it's just a courtesy.

13, go to a friend's house as a guest, don't go in and out of a friend's bedroom at will, let alone sit on the bed.

14, the dinner we met halfway, we can't go unless we are embarrassed.

15, if you can use money, don't use relationships. You can use Baidu to find the answer, don't ask around.

16, don't be the first person to toast on the wine table, and don't be the first person to move chopsticks unless you are the host.

17, when others treat you, don't pay the bill in a hurry, which will make the other party very embarrassed.

18, I sent a message to others, but others didn't reply, so there is no need to call.

19, the leader said that this thing can't be done in principle, but it is actually possible.

20. The leader said that this matter was possible in theory, but impossible in practice.

2 1. It is better to speak beautifully than to do beautifully, and it is better to speak beautifully than to look beautiful.

22. When you are rich, don't show off your wealth everywhere. Don't cry when you have no money.

Don't say anything before things are finished, because there are always people waiting to see jokes.

24. The more you give in, the less people will take you seriously. The more unreasonable you are, the less people dare to bully you.

25, cute is cute, childish is naive, sometimes cute may be naive, but childish will never be cute.

26. I heard that others are in trouble. If you're not going to help, don't ask.

27. Say only three words when you meet someone. Don't throw away all your heart.

28. Harming people is indispensable, and preventing people is indispensable.

29, don't stay in front of the widow, or you can't say for sure.

30. I have known my girlfriend for many years and would rather call her a bitch than a beauty.