I am very introverted, not too self-abased and timid. I don't know how to change this character. How can I become an interesting, humorous and euphemistic person?

There are two ways to break through the psychological defense of inferiority complex.

The first way is to do what you dare not do.

Since we want to change, we must have the courage to change. If you are afraid of saying the wrong thing, make a few mistakes and see if things will get worse. If you are afraid of making jokes, make a few jokes and see if the sky will fall. In fact, doing these things will not really embarrass them. No one will remember what they said wrong. Everyone is most concerned about himself, not others. No one will be ashamed of them as long as they are not ashamed of themselves.

When people with low self-esteem keep doing things they dare not do, they are constantly moving towards self-confidence, and when they become habits, they are truly confident. The cultivation of a habit only needs 265,438+0 repetitions, and as long as they have 265,438+0 breakthroughs in interpersonal relationships, they will be reborn.

It doesn't matter if someone doesn't have the courage to overcome their inferiority complex. If they can be soft, they can also be tough. Since they are just tough, they should be soft.

The second method is reconciliation.

As the saying goes, if you have inferiority in your heart, you will show inferiority. If you want to reconcile, don't take the initiative to overcome inferiority. Forget it, don't care, and inferiority will unconsciously stay away.

Imagine, when you are with your best friend, have you ever thought about communication? You don't have to worry about what to say Some words will pop up, and most of these words are not the patent of your friends, so you can tell them to everyone.

In other words, you should be able to say these words in front of others, but you worry too much. When you have the idea of "not knowing what to say", you really don't know what to say.

So don't care whether you should speak or not, let alone what you should say or not. When an introvert with inferiority empties himself, he will be delighted to find that he is not really silent, but will not talk as much as others. Without scruples, he will behave naturally.

If you are an inferior person, I want to tell you that if you want to achieve something, don't care too much about trivial things and emotions, especially the problem of face. If you really have face, you will not feel inferior.

The pattern should be large, the mind should be broad, and the most important thing is to ensure that no big mistakes are made. As for those small mistakes that can be easily remedied, even if they are harmless, it is better to save some energy and ignore them. Your dream is ahead. As long as you move forward unswervingly, the mud ball under your feet will be crushed. Even if the vamp is dirty, it is a big deal to brush it. Why hold it for a moment's face?

I hope all people with low self-esteem can have confidence!