How to get along with people who can't afford to make honest jokes?

First, honest people are always worried that others will deny themselves. Honest people have more or less inferiority complex, and always worry that others will deny themselves. Therefore, when they get along with others, they often feel uncomfortable, especially when they get along with people who are more famous or powerful than themselves. This "discomfort" often makes honest people want to escape from social situations as soon as possible.

Second, honest people don't want to talk to strangers. Honest people generally don't want to deal with strangers and dare not talk to strangers. Moreover, when they talk to strangers, they often involuntarily show flattering personality and are completely passive in interpersonal relationships, which leads to strangers' reluctance to talk to strangers and even consciously refuse strangers' socialization.

Third, honest people are afraid of making a fool of themselves in public. When honest Xiao Wang was in college, he made a fool of himself in a debate contest, and then he was afraid to speak in crowded places. Xiao Li, Xiao Wang's classmate, also made a fool of himself in the debate, but he was not afraid of making a fool of himself. On the contrary, whenever there is an opportunity, he tries to speak in a crowded place. After graduation, the gap between Xiao Wang and Xiao Li has widened, especially in interpersonal communication. Fear of making a fool of yourself in public is one of the main reasons why Xiao Wang lags behind Xiao Li.

Fourth, honest people are used to closing themselves off. In interpersonal communication, people with large open areas are often easy to be welcomed and get along with others. However, honest people are always used to sealing themselves in secret areas, unwilling to confide any thoughts to others, and naturally it is difficult to communicate with others. Therefore, honest people should try their best to expand the open area, narrow the secret area and reduce the obstacles to interpersonal communication when interacting with others in their lives.

5. Honest people are not good at initiative. To build relationships, you have to take the initiative to fight for them. If you wait passively, even if you are excellent in other aspects, it is difficult to achieve good results. Honest people should actively strive for interpersonal relationships and try their best to create opportunities for themselves to communicate with others, so as to overcome the bad habits of being unsociable.

6. Honest people don't like socializing. Although social intercourse is often lip service, it is also an indispensable part of improving interpersonal relationship. It's a pity that what honest people don't like most is socializing, especially giving gifts and saying nice things, which will naturally seriously affect their interpersonal skills.

So be honest with others, sometimes your jokes will hurt honest people.