Up posture, how did you coax the post-90 s female ticket?

For girls, really, coaxing is more feasible than violence at any time. I think any angry girl wants someone to coax her, and the most effective thing is for her boyfriend to play this role.

Girls are vicious and easy to coax. Although they are still pouting and angry on the surface, in fact, she has forgiven you in her heart, but she is absolutely proud of herself. At this time, you will be a bully. Girls like their boyfriends more or less, which is a bit domineering ... I think it seems overbearing to her on the surface, but it is actually for her own good, and she will feel very happy.

Girls like to play a little temper, but it's good to be sure. But for boys, you have to know the customs. Cooperation. You'll be all right soon after you let her play. You don't have to waste too much breath.

Actually, a woman is a strange animal. Her face changes with the weather. She gets angry when she accidentally doesn't listen to a word, but she can be coaxed soon.

Girls are thin-skinned, so boys should be careful not to say anything that hurts her self-esteem, or she will really get angry.

Even if she is really angry, you just have to stick to your coaxing. Don't be fierce and don't be angry. At this time, the girl's heart is the most fragile, and all she can think of is your fault. Because she has basically lost her mind now, so don't attack her most vulnerable place. If this girl loves you, you can coax her. You just have to believe that she loves you.

Remember, at this time, you must be patient. You can use all substandard methods, whether it's cheating, kissing her or hugging her. Anyway, you don't have to worry about your face. Even if I think you have done all these tricks, your girlfriend must be smiling at this time, because she feels it and you still love him.

In fact, girls are always pretending to be angry, which depends on whether boys can tell. She won't be angry if it's not particularly serious, but sometimes she likes to pretend to be angry.

Really, girls can say whatever they like. In fact, they like it in their hearts, but they may say they don't like it.

Where are the girls? It is emotional animals who like to watch bubble romance dramas. She will cry with the sadness of the plot, laugh and fantasize that she is the happy heroine, and expect that she can meet a romantic love, so she will expect her boyfriend to do something vigorous to move herself.

It happened that the boy was a careless guy. They didn't notice the girl's psychological changes and expectations. A very romantic scene may be broken up by them, and the girl will be angry again.

It is said that women in love will become stupid. In fact, I think she should go crazy. She may easily lose her mind and do some crazy things, but this is because she likes you and cares about you.

Maybe her behavior will be unreasonable, but she will do it anyway.

From a girl's point of view, I know a lot about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't have a tug-of-war with her. Maybe the person you like is also suffering.

Any girl's psychology is very complicated when she is chased. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you. She's actually fighting herself. She is afraid of being hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. If your initial confession is rejected by her, it is normal. Don't be discouraged. Who knows what this girl is thinking?

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. Kind girls are easily moved.

If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. When you are in pain, as everyone knows, that girl may regret it in her heart. Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and it will be sad to see your indifferent eyes again, but she won't tell you and won't let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is really difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are persistent and will bring them a bad reputation. However, I think that boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be kind to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If they don't succeed, they will not regret it. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples can be seen everywhere. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What is the sweetness that the initial efforts have brought? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't expect others to give it to you!

By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like, and girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I'd rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets.

First, what kind of first impression should I leave on MM (time: I just started to contact MM)

1, I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't "succeed" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should let M.

M thinks you are a self-motivated person.

Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible.

Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.

It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.

Not too formal, but not too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should be ridiculed.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.

Step 4 look mature

A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.

Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)

1, the most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see them at a glance.

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Think about it, most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. Are the children of ordinary people (

Unless you look like Chow Yun Fat (Andy Lau or kevin costner), goodwill needs to be realized through constant understanding.

Yes, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

Think about it from the girl's point of view: girls must have psychology if they rush directly to have sex.

Stress. If I find that I don't like you after a while, isn't that a lie? So if you start with ambition,

When you come out with a winning attitude, you will basically be bored back immediately.

Step 2 start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a good friend with taste.

You can also ask the other person to be a "confidante" or something. Anyway, don't say "chase you"

Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you-why don't you chase her?

Reject you? !

This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine agreeing to get married after three days of knowing each other.

Give you full contact and understanding. Feelings don't come out of thin air.

Don't be too impatient in the process of communication.

Don't pester people all day. People like you will get tired of me. A good friend told me to go after girls.

The key to children is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years)

You pester people all day, and naturally you won't think you are good. If you are cold for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.

Also, don't take out the ambition of "unless you don't marry" The price is too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.

4. Create opportunities appropriately.

I said before, don't let things turn into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get a chance to get close to girls. this is

It depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and find ways to turn waiting for rabbits into encounters; You can also pretend to be casual and find out the most suitable one.

The reason for inviting the other person to do something with you.

In a word, this is the most technical place. If you really can't, you can ask your predecessors.

5. Never: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually.

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "you get something for nothing", you are putting pressure on others by giving something like this, and others will feel indebted to you, so they will.

Find a way to repay you If you can't, find a way not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive one.

Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people instead of.

Is to turn it into something to take home.

3. What exactly is a "girlfriend"?

1, "girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good, talk about everything."

Friend, on a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" took her hand; "The willow shoots on the moon", you suddenly attack.

Kiss her. She's already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.

friends.

I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was in a hurry.

"Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend?"

So, don't rush to pierce that enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend.

Only in this way can you express your feelings to others. Many people don't understand this problem and always think that people promise to be themselves first.

Girlfriend, and then what? What? I can only say.

He is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid"

3. Have you ever had to confess?

Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, the confession is an immature confession, which is very risky, similar to the severe backwardness when playing Go.

One side was forced to release the winner. If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.

4. Don't export the word "love" easily.

I often see "bold confession" on the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature expression of "love"

"Is a sacred word, meaning pursuit, commitment, and even a responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.

1, not every MM can catch up.

There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. For example, there will always be losers, even if you.

Study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, so you can't catch up with either twin.

Look at the problem from another angle. A small rural nanny who didn't graduate from primary school will earn you 600 yuan a month, even if it is good for you.

700 yuan's gift (overdraft) is willing to "be a cow and a horse" for you, and you won't fall in love with her even if she cries every day.

Listen, you must be bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't disturb others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MM are really snobbish (a few).

If you are not convinced, you can make a determined effort to prove that "she was blind at that time" with facts, and never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser"

About gift giving:

As long as it is sincere, it is the best!

Give her a day of meticulous care!

The truth is best seen in plain!

Let her feel the warmth you brought her in the cold winter!

I believe she will be moved by you!

Come on!

Every girl wants her boyfriend to do this to her ~ love her 1. When introducing your girlfriend to a new friend, please put your arm around her waist instead of standing by pointing fingers. When you meet a beautiful woman in the street, you can stare for less than 5 seconds and quickly point out the fly in the ointment compared with her. If she does something wrong, she is already very sad, so please take the initiative to bear the responsibility you should or should not bear. Therefore, you should listen to her. She can bully you, but you must never bully her, because although she bullies you, she always thinks of you first every time something good happens! 6. If she cries at you, you should try your best to coax her until she smiles through tears! 7. Post her photo in her wallet, mobile phone ... all the places she often goes. 8. Leave her for no more than ten days. 9. In front of her friends, I hope you can show that you love her and make her more nervous than usual. A big man doesn't mean bullying. Being gentle doesn't mean you have no opinion. Handsome doesn't mean you won't tell her 13. Don't always say "where is better" and "what to eat" when I ask her. It just means you can't bear to talk to her. Always say "I love you" to her, or she will think you don't love her. Never yell at her in public or leave her alone. It doesn't matter if she did something wrong, the most important thing is to coax her later. Actually, she doesn't need time to calm down at all. She can accompany her friends, but she must value sex over friends. She watches cartoons. Don't laugh at her, but watch them with her. 20. When she misses you, race against time to date her. 2 1. Look at her eyes, extremely focused. 22. The tone is low. 23. But subjectively, she is the best. 24. If a girl talks to you, you should hold her hand. If she happens not to be around, please keep your distance from them. 25. Hold her hand when crossing the street. 2. How can ................. make his girlfriend happy? Give her a lollipop! ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ (joking) To make your girlfriend happy, you must first make her feel that you are real and won't lie to her. Girls like a boy they can rely on. It is very simple to make her fall in love with you, that is, you must fall in love with him first and pay! Secondly, to make your girlfriend happy depends on whether you are romantic or not. If you are romantic, make her satisfied with your lifestyle! If you like to keep a low profile in your life, let her come into your life, let him see your usual beauty and let her feel happy with her heart! Finally, I send you a word: choose what you love, love what you choose, care for her blindly, let her do everything, and be cold to others at ordinary times, only good to her. I have been chasing girls. According to the following experience collected from my predecessors, I now write some ideas on how to make my girlfriend happy for your reference:

1. Thick-skinned: It's important to make your girlfriend happy. Jordan chan said in the movie Young and Dangerous: If a boy is thick-skinned, he can successfully catch up with half the girls! ! Later, I tried to bail.

2. Infatuation: To make your girlfriend happy, you have to show that it doesn't matter how wronged you are, and find an opportunity to say to her on a special occasion: "XXX (name) I know you don't like me, and I know that feelings can't be forced, but ... (Remember: your eyes must be gentle to the extreme at this time, and then you look at her affectionately) Say: You can't stop me from liking you. I just hope you can live your own life ... just a little hope (your eyes must be wet) that you can let me accompany you to take care of you and protect you ... even ... even (tears are needed at this time, it's hard to say), treat me as a brother and a younger brother, and do nothing for anyone, as long as you don't let me leave you, (crying, sure) that's enough, ........... At this time, remember never to tell a girl that my life is yours and I can't live without you. Girls hate it when a boy dies in front of her.

3. Sweet mouth and smooth tongue: make your girlfriend happy. I can't teach you this, but I have to rely on you. At this point, I remind you that no matter what clothes she wears or what makeup she wears, as long as she asks you, you must say "good-looking" and you must make a splash. Girls naturally like to be flattered.

4. Stability: This is all compatible with the third point. If you make your girlfriend happy, a steady girl will say that you are a playboy, and if you lose your smooth tongue, you will say that you don't know how to play. Ha ha!

5. Romance: It's up to you to make your girlfriend happy. It is enough to choose the right time to surprise her. This trick can't be afraid of spending money.

6. Be careful: To make your girlfriend happy, you should first think of her (don't think you will suffer ... etc.) and take care of her in every possible way. You must make her feel that she can't live without you.

7 Summary: If you have learned all the above points, I feel that there is no girl you can't catch up with (this sentence does not include those whose looks are too different, such as the man himself looks like a turtle and the woman looks like a fairy). In short, the word "heart" should be used to understand what she thinks. Finally, I hope all lovers in the world are good, but it should be useful ~