"The nest is horizontal and the outside is afraid", and it is cold to the family.

Grumpy to relatives, affable to outsiders. This kind of person will not hate him for abandoning him because of his relatives, and no matter what he did wrong, his relatives will forgive him in the end. Such people are immature, completely ignoring the feelings of their loved ones and not realizing the importance of their loved ones.

The people lying in the nest are polite and amiable in front of outsiders, irritable and irritable in front of relatives. That's because outsiders will not tolerate his bad temper, but relatives will care about him and be willing to tolerate it; They cherish him and always tolerate him, so he doesn't have to worry about any bad consequences.

People in the nest are reckless because they are loved, which is a sign of willfulness and selfishness, because people who kiss again will be disappointed and chilling. You know, relatives are not your punching bag.

Family, fed up with the bad temper in the nest, will be desperate when they are sad again and again, and will be completely chilling when they are desperate again and again. Don't wait for your family to break your heart before you reflect on your mistakes. Only by being kind to the people you love can your family be happy and harmonious.

At work, people in the nest are polite, educated, friendly to outsiders and can get along with others in harmony. But when he got home, he changed his appearance, but he was not as good to his family as he was to outsiders. He is either bad-tempered or cold-blooded and violent. This is because he knows that interacting with outsiders is an unknown and uncontrollable state, and he feels unsafe, so he will try his best to maintain this state. Getting along with relatives is a strong and relaxed family relationship, with a sense of security and no worries, so killing family members is a typical "killing relatives outside."

People who lie in their nests leave their worst emotions to their relatives, but they are gentle with outsiders. Such people are often introverted, not good at communicating with their families, and like to submit to humiliation when things happen. They like to carry it under pressure and lose their temper with their relatives when they can't carry it anymore. This is his sorrow, and their families really need to understand.

Once a person who pretends to be a grandson outside is humiliated, in order to find psychological balance and save face, if he has no face and status at home, it is humbleness that he can't afford, so he plays dirty in front of his family and finds his meager face and self-esteem. Suffering from bad breath outside and wanting to relieve it at home is actually a sign of incompetence.

People lying in the nest are kind to others for the benefit and career, giving people an easy-going, easy-going and even timid feeling. They are labeled as "good people" and "honest people", thinking what others think and being smooth. However, as soon as he got home, he took off his coat of "elegance" because he felt that his home was safe and a place where he could be free and autocratic.

People in the nest get along with their families day and night, accompanied by four seasons, because they know each other, so they don't need to pretend. In front of outsiders, he will be a man with his tail between his legs, and will not complain about others, but he will hide his unbearable side. So in order to save face, he often behaves well in front of others, especially the leaders. He is not only wronged or in trouble at work, but also afraid to complain, not to be angry with others, because he knows that these embarrassing things are scars to himself and jokes to others.

People in the nest should know that the only person in the world who can accept your bad temper is someone who cares about you; Don't care about you, who is willing to tolerate your bad mood; I don't care about you. Who wants to put up with your bad temper? You should leave your good attitude to your family and your good temper at home, so that you can gain more happiness. Your family is closest to you and loves you the most. You need to be careful with them and cherish them. If you can apply your kindness and patience to your family, you will be surprised to find that you have lost less and less, but gained more and more.