I have been in contact with her for a long time, working in different places (I am in Nanjing and she is in Xinghua, Taizhou). I am a landscape architect and she is a primary school Chinese teacher.

First of all, I have to say that you must correct your shyness. If you really like her, you should cheer yourself up by thinking "I like her, I should let her feel my presence" every time you are timid and nervous. Friends can't always help you, mainly on their own. But I think your shyness is interesting. If the girl you meet likes this kind of person, she will think you are cute. Stop it-the main thing is that you should learn to take the initiative. Do you understand? If you want to continue this topic.