Many people say that after the age of 30, girls are not qualified to choose a partner. Is it true?/You don't say.

Many people say that after the age of 30, girls are not qualified to choose a partner. Is it true?/You don't say. The popular joke "Men have forty-one flowers and women have thirty bean curd dregs" reflects the present situation of older unmarried men and women. Only in this respect, I have to say that men are always given preferential treatment. Women's age will be accused of not getting married, and they will be discounted if they miss the most suitable childbearing age, but they will always be accused of having too high a vision. Anyway, a woman's value is like a stock, and her age determines whether she will go up or down.

Marriage was originally a channel for two people's feelings, but the pressure of real life gave it many other meanings. An old woman who doesn't get married must be asking too much. In addition, the age is there, if there is a suitable object, we must seize it immediately. "Don't choose a woman in her thirties." This is what the mother of her unmarried friend told her herself. Even her parents acquiesced in this social prejudice. The reason why older women are difficult to marry is really painful.

Pressure from parents and family.

My daughter, whom I have worked so hard to raise, will be handed over to another man one day and entrusted for life. No matter how enlightened parents are, they can't treat their daughter's happiness normally, so it is inevitable that they will be speechless when they always look at their daughter. Parents say that when a woman reaches the age of 30, she should stop talking about any conditions and must lower her standards. That girl has no hope of getting married. Parents want their daughter to calm down as soon as possible, have a home and think about her daughter, but unconsciously this anxiety infected her daughter, making her not only doubt the meaning of her existence, but also have a rebellious attitude towards marrying this resentment.

Parents should be the guides and guardians of their daughters' confusion, not the disseminators of anxiety. The purpose of their education after birth is to train their daughter into an excellent and independent woman. In the process of raising her daughter, she should accept equal and positive ideas. As a result, when my daughter became an adult, she began to overthrow the education of the previous decades because she got married late, which was a great blow to her daughter and began to question herself and her marriage.

Pressure from men and society

When the word "older women" came into being, it was aimed at those unmarried women with high academic qualifications who were better than marriageable age. Confession is because you can't get married, seek your own capital, and focus on older women who are too demanding. With the fermentation of public opinion, some people say that as long as they are not married, their eyes are too high. We have to say that this society is very harsh on women. On the contrary, men will be more stable than women as long as they have good conditions. Because I'm not worried about not getting married. Therefore, on this issue, men are excellent guides for women, so lower the standard a little and don't let others be afraid. On this issue, older unmarried women are always subjected to more discrimination, more pressure and unfriendly. It is disrespectful to measure the value of women only by their age. Most importantly, no matter how vicious the outside world is, only by letting parents know their daughters better can families have strength.