"Man, don't overestimate your feelings. Your relatives actually don't want you to live better than him. " what do you think?

Lu Yao said in the book "Ordinary World", "When we were young, we often regarded' relatives' as beautiful and important. Once we grow up and start living independently, we will soon know that family ties are often vulgar; Try to touch each other and roll your eyes without touching the light; Even the biggest difficulties in your life are often caused by relatives; Life will also tell you that relatives are often not as sincere as friends. "

Yes! Don't be naive, no relatives will be kind enough to hope that you will live better than them! People who can't see you, people who want to see your jokes, and people who wish you bad luck are often people around you and relatives!

In this world, except for parents, few people really want you to live well! As long as you live better than them, they can't stand it! The law of jealousy is to envy the near, not the far! The more relatives you have, the more you compete in secret, and the easier it is to envy you!

I have a deep understanding of this! When I built three floors in the county, some relatives felt sour in their hearts, not the taste. One of my relatives disdainfully said to me, "Don't worry about your building being too high, your children won't worry about coming in!" " "I know that he doesn't like my children, looks down on my children, and thinks that my children are naughty and have no future! I just have a little more money than him, and he doesn't want it!

Later, my child was admitted to the Public Security University, and I was very happy, because his major was suitable for him and he could play his specialty! But some relatives sarcastically said behind his back: "What's the big deal about getting into a public security university? Public security work is risky! I can't get out as a security guard! "

These are relatives. I only hope you are good parents, not good relatives! Of course not all! Because your Excellence shows the mediocrity of your loved ones! Your aura blocks the light of your loved ones! Your progress is developed, which makes your relatives lose their sense of existence in the circle of relatives!

Therefore, when you meet good things and have achievements, don't show off in front of relatives. Otherwise, it is hatred!

The circle of relatives is a small society, a small Jianghu! There are also discordant notes between relatives, and they can't play the same tune! Don't imagine your loved ones to be so beautiful! Don't take your loved ones too seriously!

Almost everyone in this world wants to live better than others, and they don't want others to live better than themselves, even their relatives are no exception. Everyone will be jealous, but to varying degrees. This is an indisputable fact. People not only want to live better than others, but also want to be better than others in all aspects. If they find that others are more outstanding and better than themselves, they will be jealous. Everyone wants to be a decent person, and everyone wants to be respected everywhere, which makes people sit up and take notice. Everyone has vanity, it's just a matter of weight.

Some relatives seem to be kind to you on the surface, but they care about you in their mouths. Especially in front of others, they will show a concern for you and say you are difficult! Do evil! Poor thing! In fact, such people are mostly showing themselves, proving that they are better off than you, and at the same time explaining to others that they care about their loved ones and are enthusiastic people. Such people are very common. If you are rich and powerful, your relatives and friends will generally be kind to you. This is to get your help when you are in trouble in the future. When you are down and out, there are few relatives and friends who are good to you and support you. Some just see that you are still valuable. Of course, there are still very few people who really help the poor, poor relatives and friends, which is still heard. But I'm not that lucky. I haven't met such good relatives and friends, and I dare not even think about it. I just hope my relatives and friends don't want to take advantage of me and don't burn incense!

I've been down and out all my life, and what I said above is my own experience!

The only people in this world who really care about you and want you to live better than him are parents, brothers, sisters and children, not to mention relatives and friends!

Everything in the world is full of yin and yang, not all bad, nor all good. There are good and bad, cold and hot, and life has feelings.

Relatives are no different from those around them. Just born under the same roof, or established a cooperative relationship, contact more, closer and more frequently than the average person, the ancients said that ten people and nine relatives. Dig deeper, nine out of ten people you know will at least come into contact with relatives and friends. But life is alive and energy is limited. Few relatives can keep in touch for a long time, most of them are close relatives. But both close relatives and distant relatives represent a blood relationship. Although the representatives of a gene have the same gene, everyone is an individual, and this world is a competitive world. Without competition, there will be no progress, so competition among individuals is inevitable, cruel at first glance, but necessary. Nobody can leave. But justice is still the most precious thing in the world. Regardless of relatives or outsiders, most people still hope that just people will live well.

So I want my relatives and friends to bless each other. Justice must be placed in the middle. Only with a selfless and boundless heart can we wish the world a good life. Even those who are blessed by outsiders will wish their relatives and friends a good life. Good people who are not expected by relatives and friends will not have great love for society.

So it's all mutual. What you do to the world, the world will do to you. This is especially true between relatives.