Throughout the ages, the children of the Red Chamber have no one to rely on.

A Dream of Red Mansions, also known as The Story of the Stone, is the pinnacle of China's classical novels, ranking first among the "Four Classical Novels of China". As an encyclopedia of China's feudal society, this work by Mr. Cao Xueqin, with the writing style of "the truth is hidden, the false story is told in the village" and the love story of Baoyu, Daiyu and Baochai as the main line, coincides with the decline of China's feudal society in the daily chores of Jiafu and the leisure of the boudoir. This book has caused extensive discussion and controversy in both folk and academic circles. Some people like Baoyu, some people appreciate Baochai, some people think this way, some people think that way. It can be said that everyone has a dream of red mansions in his heart and a grand view garden in his heart. Then, next, I want to share with you my "treasure, wear, hairpin and phoenix":

The first one, of course, is Lin Daiyu. Her parents died early and lived with her grandparents. Jia treats her far better than her own granddaughter and loves her infinitely. Normally, a teenager should not feel that such love depends on others, but we see that many of her good things are superficial, just like many of our parents think, for you to eat and wear.

In all fairness, we can't blame Jia Mu for Dai Yu's suspicious character, but as the only support for Dai Yu in Jia Fu, Jia Mu didn't take care of the anxiety of a child who lost his parents and stayed at someone else's house. In other words, her love for Daiyu did not bring her a sense of security. And her love is like a condescending reward. If I give you something delicious, fun and useful, you should be happy. Since you are ill, it's just more medicine for me. She didn't give Daiyu psychological warmth and care. If Grandmother Jia can talk it over with Daiyu, let Daiyu let her guard down and make this place her home, she should also be able to raise a healthy Daiyu Lin.

Jia said in front of xiren and Mrs. Wang:

Xiangyun went home to visit relatives, and Jia told Daiyu:

You see, Jia, as Daiyu's only support in Jiafu, said this about her granddaughter. Although rational enough, it is chilling enough in terms of human feelings, not to mention others. This caused Daiyu's anxiety from beginning to end. Besides, in a big family, most of them are lofty and low. Although she is Jia's favorite granddaughter, it is difficult to protect other people's strange eyes. No wonder Daiyu loves to be angry. Psychologically speaking, anger is an instinctive way of self-protection. She can only protect herself by being angry, so as not to feel depressed and let others continue to bully her. No wonder she said emotionally: 360 days a year, the wind and sword are pressing!

And Baoyu's love for her, as a bystander, we know how Baoyu cares about her, pities her, is careful and always thinks about her. Although Daiyu may have felt it in her heart, especially after complaining. But Baoyu's performance is too broad. He is sympathetic and friendly to everyone. If he didn't know his feelings for Daiyu, he would scold him millions of times in love rat. Therefore, Daiyu's little love really can't bear these doubts, her smile to Baochai, her kindness to xiren and her deep yearning for Qingwen. Daiyu was jealous, but under the feudal ethics.

Let's talk about Baochai. Baochai's father died young, leaving her mother and a worthless brother alone, and she still had a huge family business. Since she was a child, she has been used to seeing changes in temperature and seeing through personnel disputes: if she doesn't share her worries for her mother, if she doesn't be sensible and considerate for her mother, what will this family look like and how can she bear it? When entertaining Jia Jia, she is also careful, considerate and careful. Jia Jia once commented on her and Xiangyun like this:

For a girl with responsibilities on her shoulders, innocence is something that only others can see. We sometimes resent her versatility, but she is so sophisticated and impersonal at an early age, but she is very painful when she grows up. Who is not born naive and ignorant, who is not eager to be carefree? Someone once said: I really envy those simple and lovely people who don't know anything at their age, because they don't have to be protected to grow up and be sensible. For example, in "The Year of Flowers Blooming", Wu hired his mother and later spoiled her all his life. Mrs. Wu's personality, expression and temperament are all like teenage girls. Everyone who looks at her is happy, but how many people can have such luck and blessing?

Baochai of the Peach Blossom Society once wrote catkin poems:

Compared with Daiyu's phrase "clean and honest, better than trapped ditch", it has more "soft" power; And the phrase "let him get together and go again" also makes people feel particularly distressed by this girl. How clear she is, not entangled, not demanding, gathering and parting, everything goes with fate.

I don't think Baochai wants to marry a dude like Baoyu. But under the expediency of all parties, Baoyu is the choice she can't refuse. Her brother is in prison, his family is in decline, and his mother is about to be displaced. She can only listen to Jia's choice and give her family a support. However, the huge difference in values with Baoyu makes them feel worse than strangers. Often Baoyu himself is depressed, unhappy, silent, ignorant and too lazy to pay attention to him. ? Really touching, the loneliness of two people is really terrible! Look at the verdict of the Red Chamber on their marriage:

Besides, Xifeng, Xifeng. Most of the reasons for mentioning her are: the organization is too clever and missed your life. Too many people say that he is greedy and vicious, which is true. However, he never hated this man. Objectively speaking, Xifeng's bad things are very common in today's world, even worse, but Xifeng's good things are really hard to find out in this world. I don't want to talk about talent. I am in charge of the Jia family, and I manage it well. If I say greed and power, who doesn't, let alone her status? If you are the second sister, who will find that her husband secretly keeps concubines without hurting her liver and getting angry and retaliating? We are not that tolerant. We all have these human weaknesses, so don't be so ugly. And for everyone in the family, he tries to take care of everyone's feelings, regardless of illegitimate children, they are all kind, not to mention Baoyu's. Let's look at Daiyu. When we checked the Grand View Garden, we went to Daiyu's room:

In fact, for Daiyu, he need not be so sincere. Anyway, Daiyu's temper, no matter how wronged, will only shed tears and will never tell grandma.

Some people say that Xifeng's influence is also a guest of the Jia family. Why not check Baochai? But let's look at it from another angle. Baoyu, Sichun and Jia's children all live in the house. Daiyu, like them, all guardians are in Jia's house. If something goes wrong, how can we ignore her? If nothing was found in the "Grand View Garden" this time, wouldn't Daiyu be Li Xia, Gua Tian? Maybe she's afraid of being confused, too Baochai knew that her mother was in Jiafu, and Xifeng could not cross the border to find him, so she simply moved back home.

Another time, she was in mourning and sick, and the grandmother went to the funeral, leaving Feng and Chun to look after the house. After Jia's few possessions were stolen, Xichun was ashamed. At this time, I haven't had time to put all the blame on Feng. After all, she is ill and can't get up. Where did she get these things? But she still comforted Cherish Spring softly, fearing that she would take things too hard and it was her fault. Speaking of it, Guo Rongfu is a power field, but Xifeng can't say no to these girls' families, sisters and even granny Liu.

Finally, talk about Baoyu. Although it is a life book written in the past life under the great barren hills and cliffs, it is still from the later generations. For the maid in his room, meeting him is definitely saving the galaxy in a previous life, and it is impossible to use the word "good". It is really unspeakable pity and meticulous. But what about himself? In his words, who cares about my heart? As the most beloved teenager in Guo Rong Building, these loves also bound him. Now we all know the importance of a sense of accomplishment to a person, even the support of a person's mental state, but where does Baoyu's sense of accomplishment come from? Haven't there been several poetry clubs since the reunification of * * *? Or Jia's pet? Time flies, it's boring to be rich and gentle after a long time. He doesn't even have a spiritual pillar. No wonder "he doesn't look for anything, sometimes he looks like a fool", otherwise why do you let him be idle every day at a young age? Reading? I finally decided to write a sentence, but my family stopped me in the name of love:

How can you get sick when you write a word? Which one of us missed our homework in a hurry? Mrs. Wang and her gang are really enough. They are always afraid to hook up with Baoyu's illness. You see, how can children grow up in such an environment? I don't blame Baoyu for knowing only his sister and rouge gouache every day, and he can't stand any pressure. You don't think he can improve, but you give him a chance to improve.

And Jia Zheng, scold him if he does well, scold him if he doesn't do well, and raise a good child all day. Even delivering packages has to take care of many jokes at home. He was embarrassed: he felt that he didn't laugh when telling a joke, that he had no eloquence and couldn't even tell a joke. What's more, he won't be serious when he says it, he will only be glib. What's more, this father-son relationship.

I don't think any child can bear it. Fortunately, Baoyu can grow up healthily under the protection of Jia Mu and others. But only the flesh has grown up, and the grass is still in the belly.

And Daiyu's love, I can't tell you how affectionate he is. Daiyu's temper is modern, who can stand it? But we Baoyu really did it in a hundred ways, and I also had a hundred and one ways to coax him. When we are affectionate, we really admire the human situation. However, his goodwill is also speechless. A Liu Wuer who wants to enter Yee Hong Courtyard can make him stay! He likes all kinds of women so much, but he doesn't know that it is a blessing that Daiyu didn't marry him. Daiyu left neatly, leaving Baoyu thinking about her and thinking about her. If he is really married and guarding such a playboy, he will be suspicious every day, quiet for a while, worried for a while, and feel endless abuse when he thinks about it.

The two of them, in the end, are just helpless, one is vanity and the other is emptiness. It's nothing more than a moon in the water and a flower in the mirror. How many tears can my sister have in her eyes that can withstand autumn flowing into winter and spring flowing into summer?

Finally, I recommend this book to you. There is an online novel called The Rebirth of Daiyu in a Dream of Red Mansions. The author did not dye fireworks, and through the novel, he used the routine of how a weak girl became fierce and scheming after rebirth, and finally defeated the demons and embarked on the peak of her life. She told the story of Daiyu's different life with a good ending. Lin Daiyu, a girl who suffered a lot in her last life, will eventually be United and happy together ~ ~