Older woman: Why don't you long for love?

Older leftover women refer to some adult women who choose to be single for some reasons when they get married. It's not that I don't want to fall in love, but because of work pressure, I haven't met anyone who wants to entrust me with my life. With their continuous progress and yearning for a better life, they have a heartfelt understanding of love and marriage. Think that love and marriage are not the whole of life. I like to enjoy life alone, but occasionally I will have a little yearning for love when I am alone. There will also be envy for couples in pairs.

An emotional monologue of Kun, a 34-year-old leftover woman: She said she didn't talk about it, but she didn't have a chance. I prefer my single life to trying to get to know someone and let him know that I love me. Really don't want to fall in love.

Modern people's love is so troublesome that I can't suddenly squeeze a person into my life. Share half my wardrobe and sofa, and allow him to dirty my carpet, mess up my home and disturb my biological clock. This has affected my quiet and far-reaching single life.

At a friend's party, I pieced my friends together. Many of them are married and have families. We are going to dance in the bar all night and relive the days when we were young. However, we seldom go there. It is said that it is our best effort that we can come to the party. I have to go back to take care of my husband and children at night.

Seeing this scene, I can't believe that the person who once took the lead in organizing games and didn't stop playing until dawn has now returned to his family. The heavy family pressure made her look old. She is not the beautiful and fashionable woman anymore.

I smiled silently, thankful for myself, and felt a little warm and envious at the same time. Love is falling in love with each other voluntarily, willing to lose freedom, giving everything for each other without asking for anything in return. I admire this kind of love.

Busy life, ups and downs inside. I am no longer allowed to have a good relationship. The heavy pressure of life and the troubles of work make my desire for romantic love less and less.

I crowded the subway to work alone, and ordered takeout with my colleagues for lunch. Occasionally take a nap in the afternoon, I simply chat with you, swallow bitter coffee and start working again.

Put on flat shoes after work, invite friends to try the new restaurant, sit by the bar for a while, and then walk home slowly along the street lamp. In order to dream and stay in the same city with a few good friends, life can also be called regular and full.

Things at work can be discussed with colleagues, and problems in life can also be discussed with friends. I don't know who to send beautiful photos to, and I don't know who to share them with when I see funny jokes. For example, I didn't buy my favorite Guandong cook tonight. I always take out my mobile phone for an instant, and I don't know who to complain to. I can only sigh and press the screen out.

There is always some tenderness, which is only suitable for sharing with lovers. Love is so magical that it can make the details of life bloom. Looks like I really need love.

It's long past the age when you have a crush on someone. Buying him breakfast and handing him a love letter, even casual eye contact will make his heart beat faster. I don't want to really know the blind date through the introduction of relatives, and sort out the real estate license and car keys on the desktop. Then we talked until the end of the dinner, took a taxi home, and finally there was no news.

Adults are too good at camouflage, busy with a day's work and friends' parties. Hiding in a corner, pretending not to be lonely at all, playing from childhood to adulthood, told me that she never wanted to fall in love again after that four-year relationship. Tired of playing, I don't want to wander any more, so I go to the subway station and marry any man.

I swallowed the last sip of vodka in my glass and turned to touch her back. Your cold joke is not funny at all. After a long journey, I won't be ecstatic about that tree.

Occasionally miss the time when white clothes were fluttering, when love was pure. I met my first love in college. At that time, the happiest thing was to go to the stadium at night and wait for him to pass him ice water after the game. His sweat slipped from his chin to his collar, and I handed him a tissue to wipe it.

During the break, we will go shopping in the city center and chase Xixi. I always fall asleep when I come back on the subway and lean my head gently on his shoulder. In the evening, we run together, and when we are tired of running, we lie on the lawn of the playground and watch the stars.

Unfortunately, simply because of love, we will be separated because we don't love. I can't bear to think about it now, and there will be moments of nostalgia.

Adult love is probably meeting in a coffee shop. A few tacit greetings, if you feel good, ask out for dessert next time. By the way, watch a movie, announce the relationship at the right time, then give gifts to each other and show off in a circle of friends. Pass the running-in period smoothly and enter the marriage hall.

I don't want to lower my living standard because of love, and I am very satisfied with this kind of casual and free single life. I don't want to meet new people, so I will repeat my old love words with others.

Man is a senior animal in society, but his essence is loneliness. The seemingly contradictory things between the two cannot exist, but this essential thing cannot affect the external attributes. No matter how much I don't want to fall in love now, I will finally accept to love and be loved enthusiastically. This is our instinct to adapt to external challenges. Instinct cannot be changed. So, it's not that I don't want to fall in love, but that I haven't met anyone who can give us enough courage to face unknown risks, waves and heartbreak. Accept the reality, even if you love it very much, you will be separated by misunderstanding.

My love is like two children opening a secret gift box together. I don't know if candy or bitter coffee is next. However, both of them decided to experience this bitter and sweet together. He will hold your hand and open all the boxes. Eyes firm, palms warm.

So, I want to be ready for love, but Cupid's arrow will always surprise you. At least at the moment when we decide to love someone, our eyes are full of love and blood.

True love is always similar, it makes us put down all our armor and release innocence and purity that are not in line with our age. I think I really need to fall in love. I met him in the vast sea of people. The first time I saw him, I willingly said to the deer who had longed for love for many years, "Hit him again and fall in love with me"! That is, an extra pair of chopsticks.

Many times, it's not that we don't want to fall in love, but that we've been waiting for the person we secretly love to appear. There are no older women, but everyone's love will come sooner or later. As long as we have a correct view of love and don't give up the confidence to pursue love, everyone will have their own sweet love.