Let the old man take care of the children.

What's the harm of letting the old man take the children with him all the time?

1. Taking care of children all the year round will accelerate the aging of parents. One of my cousins doesn't let the elderly take care of their children all the year round, but the couple usually work and the children need the care of the elderly all day before they go to kindergarten. I used to be in good health when I was menstruating, so I didn't have time. Sowing and fertilizing is not a problem at all. I was born and worked on a farm and never complained about being tired.

But since I brought my children, my physical strength is not as good as before. She does not do farm work every day. She just cooks, washes clothes and plays with the children, but she always says she is tired. When the child was over 2 years old, he accidentally broke his hand while loading toys for the child, and it took a long time to recover because of diabetes. Since then, his hands are often so weak that children can't hold them. After that, every time I saw her having her period, I felt that she was old. Including my own mother, after taking care of the children, she is getting old quickly, easily tired and sleepy, and the old man can't afford to turn it over and over. So during off-duty hours and weekends, I am basically responsible for my children and give the elderly time to rest and play.

3. How tired it is to take care of children. Anyone who takes care of children personally knows that young people are still physically exhausted, let alone the elderly. But after reading so many answers, most people are talking about how bad they are to their children, saying that the elderly take care of their children for spiritual satisfaction, and so on. Few people really care about the influence of this behavior on the elderly, and even less … Some people say that they can take the elderly around, but not all the elderly can adapt to the new environment. Living with the elderly often leads to contradictions, which is really a big problem without solution. However, I think in the final analysis, it is still an economic problem. Young people are really under great pressure. They should work hard and earn more money. It is a good thing that old people are willing to take care of their children. If they don't care, they have to bring their own.

Because I was brought up by my grandparents, they love me very much, but they are definitely not coquetry. I have a good relationship with them, too. Even when I grow up, I like living with them. The disadvantage is that you are not close to your parents. No matter what the reason, even if the child knows that you are raising him for money, you can't be close. After all, time is up. Of course, if the old man dotes on him, it is a very bad situation. My nephew belongs to the elders. He always has some very rude behaviors and disrespects his elders. Everything is taken for granted. So, if you can be a qualified parent, you will feel much better, probably.