Dealing with women who treat you like a spare tire

1. Why did you become a spare tire? 1, I don't know how to refuse. Do you think girls will really put you in their hearts just because they are always nice to girls? Don't be silly. Now many girls say they are short of money, so it's time to find an ATM. Of course, this is only for some girls. If you don't know how to refuse, you will often be used. She: My computer is broken. Can you help me repair it? You: \ Ok, I will go. She: I'm going to the station tomorrow, but my luggage is so heavy and my heart is so tired. You: \ Then I'll take you to the station tomorrow. Then you ran over for her, exhausted, and finally, what did you get? Or a spare tire. Next time she has something to do, she will think of you. Maintaining a long-term relationship has always been the most difficult part of a relationship. Before this, the author was tortured to death by this incident, and came across a love book related to picking up girls, "The Counterattack of Gong Bei Yuze". In an instant, this policy attracted me, and then I looked at it carefully, completely changing many of my previous misconceptions. Now the couple have a super good relationship, and they will go out to steal something every three to five times, and they all understand. If you have any brothers who want to learn, you can have a look. Baidu search "Gong Bei Yu Ze strikes back" has e-books. Since it is lacking, study hard and use it, and you will have everything you want. 2. Always give you a brand of a good man without temper. You are a trash can. Her complaints, tears, unhappiness, all fell on you. You have no temper, so you go on. Do you think you will see you when it is full? Don't wait, there is no such day! 3, the spare tire that is too active is generally that when you are not active, she will never take the initiative to find you. And you can't stand not contacting the goddess. I know that a reply from the goddess can make you happy for half a day. But it is your initiative that makes girls too presumptuous. Second, deal with women who use you as a spare tire in this way. 1, change active to passive. Don't always talk to her when you have nothing to do. Read more news or books online to enrich your experience. Enhance your values. When you don't talk to her for a few days, she may take the initiative to find you. Because the spare tire can't be lost, then you can let her change you in a new way of chatting. 2. Externally changing the present sister is more important than the external image. In the meantime, change yourself. In short, it is different in peacetime, giving her a refreshing feeling. As for what clothes to buy, I will decide according to my own style. I admit, it's really hard to do this for the person you like, especially the goddess. You will feel very humble. Her smile can be played back thousands of times in the theater in your mind, and you can't wait to kneel down for this smile and meet all her requirements. However, women like to be conquered. Even if you are pursuing her, don't show no personality and dignity in front of her, or you will be spared for life. 4. learn from each other. I believe that everyone has strengths, and give play to their own strengths. For example, if you sing well, invite her to ktv. If you can draw, draw a self-portrait of her according to her photo, or if you can't do anything, it's not bad to learn some funny jokes to tell your sister. In general, according to your own specialties, you should dare to show your sister and create conditions and opportunities yourself. The counterattack of the spare tire depends on you! Deal with the woman who regards you as a spare tire 2. What if girls treat you as a spare tire? 1, I really don't want to lose her, or the conditions are worse than her, so I don't want to pursue: if you really like her and don't want to lose her, or your conditions are worse than her, then continue to pursue hard. Good girls are afraid of magic wolves. In this process, you don't care about her attitude towards you. After a long time, she got used to your concern and accepted you in her heart. But you may have to coax her all the time to maintain your relationship, depending on your patience. 2, I am very good in all aspects, so I must learn to let go: when a woman takes a man as a spare tire, she will not love that man. If you spend more time, you probably won't make her fall in love with you. So, men, if you have good conditions in all aspects, don't pester this woman. There are many women in the world. Don't just hang yourself from this tree. When true love comes, you don't have to worry, do you, man? We must be able to afford it and put it down. If you don't talk to a girl, she won't feel anything: if a girl really does this to you, then she may really not love you, and she doesn't have you in her heart at all. For her, there is not much more than you, and there is absolutely nothing missing. You are just her spare tire, dispensable and essential. If you are really taken as a spare tire by a woman, I will leave that woman early for you and stay with her. You will never be happy. Even if you give her your heart and lungs and lose your life, she doesn't care. Your sense of self is useless. As long as she doesn't recognize you in her heart, all your efforts are in vain, and you have no future. What if girls treat you as a spare tire? I also said a lot above. In fact, both boys and girls have their own love, and it is the kind that lasts forever. I hope that two people will go to the palace of marriage, and that their love will be sweeter, so we must manage it well. Boys should take care of girls in all directions and take care of her feelings at all times. We should discuss everything, understand each other and tolerate each other. You two not only had a long-term love, but also entered your marriage. With the crystallization of your love, you lived a happy life from now on. In marriage, there are many trivial things. At this time, you should get along better. Otherwise, your marriage will break up and it may be more troublesome to solve it.