When a couple quarrels, what is the most hurtful thing to say?

After decades of life, I have experienced a lot, and I have also witnessed the separation and reunion of many young men and women around me. From this, I concluded that there are a few words that you should never say between lovers. Even if you become a couple in the future, you should not say them, because these words are the most hurtful.

1. How did I choose you in the first place?

The most hurtful thing between lovers is the sentence "How did I choose you in the first place", because this sentence is just a At the beginning, what follows will be a stormy accusation against the other party, where there is regret, regret and unwillingness. Moreover, most of the accusations here are the true thoughts of men and women, but many of them are very one-sided. The purpose is to reduce the other party to nothing and vent one's dissatisfaction.

Generally, the probability of a girl saying this to a boy in a couple is very high. Most of the time, after a man and a woman live together for a period of time, the woman finds that the man is not as perfect as he was at the beginning. There are even some cowards, and at this time the girls will complain, thinking that the boy in front of them cannot meet their spiritual and material requirements. Most boys who hear such complaints feel powerless and desperate, because they know that there is no way for them to live the way girls imagine.

2. Without me, you are nothing

No matter whether it is a man or a woman who says this, there is a feeling of superiority, as if one has been stepped on by the other party. It feels like I can't live without my partner. But the basis for couples to get along is mutual respect, and they can support each other when necessary. For example, if you should regard your efforts as charity to the other party, and think about how the other half feels, it would be strange not to break up.

This second sentence is exactly the opposite of the first sentence. Most of them are boys talking to girls. It usually happens after the man and woman have been together for a period of time. The man discovers that the woman is actually a princess. The disease is extremely serious and he himself He is not very capable and likes girls who are clingy, which puts a lot of mental pressure on the man. He also feels arrogant after helping the woman many times. When there is a quarrel, this sentence is often used to stimulate the woman and make her feel ashamed. But men should also think about it themselves. Girls also need dignity. They can be around you like little birds, because they love you and need you. You said this clearly because you don't want to play together anymore, so why should I care about you anymore.

3. Let’s break up

This kind of words is also a common word among men and women who are in love. Many men and women will talk about this sentence and use it to threaten them. The other party, but in fact, most of them don't necessarily really want to completely separate from the other party in their hearts. They just intimidate the other party to make the other party cherish themselves more. But this statement really cannot be used for a long time. Be careful and it will be self-defeating. What will happen if the other party really complies with your wishes? In fact, it may seem like an unintentional joke, but it is extremely harmful and lays hidden dangers for future relationship problems.

But in fact, these hurtful words are not the most terrible thing for lovers. The most terrible thing is that the two parties say nothing and have been in a cold war. Only then are they really on the verge of breaking up. . Because communication and communication are all that matters, even if there is a quarrel, both parties still have room for relaxation. If both parties have no power to quarrel, then it can only be said that their tolerance for each other has reached the limit, and both parties have reached their limit. Levels of exhaustion. Then this relationship is really going to end.