What is the disease of always having a bad habit?

It is a mental illness, a mental problem, which leads to one's own arrogance and exaggeration. People who have strength always use actions to prove it. Who can talk is no good. Who can't talk, but they may not always do things. This is the difference. I have met many people who like to play, but when they finally broke up, I didn’t even know what kind of play they were using to play...

First of all, the performance of playing is to live on the surface and put what you have into yourself. All the things you have and don't have are put on display, the purpose is to make people envy you, to make people flatter you, and to enjoy this ridiculous happiness. The whole person is completely empty by showing off, and all that's left is this skin. Let’s talk about the boys I know. They were so good-looking at the banquet, and they were all bragging and gibbering. They were competing to see who was better and who was the best. I was listening and watching a bunch of kids passing by. Every family is as naive as anyone who is more mature. What they brag about and rant about are just the things they are proud of, whether it is their height, appearance, or how many brothers they have around them. Ten years later, after being tortured by life, they will still be like this in the time dormitory. Are you going to keep giggling? It's ridiculous to show off.

Secondly, if you give up the hobby of playing the harp, you will either have to endure the torture of reality or suffer from your own ridiculous harp, only then will you be enlightened, quiet, and learn humility. Don't be stingy when it's time to promote yourself, use your strength to overwhelm yourself. When you shouldn't be arrogant, talk less, and don't use your little skin to make a fool of yourself in front of others. If you don't know how to be laughed at by others, you won't know anything about it.

So, a person’s mentality is very important. This is inseparable from the family environment and living environment. They are all nurtured. Otherwise, how could one learn it? Therefore, it is not a good thing to show off and be arrogant. Only those who are not strong enough will be addicted to talking. Those who are truly knowledgeable will not say a word and will quietly wait for you to fall into the trap.