How to overcome dependence on someone?

Dependence is a natural habit of human beings, from the time they are babies until they return to the dust. It doesn’t matter whether it’s right or wrong to rely on, it doesn’t matter whether you should rely on it or not. Because no one is perfect and cannot be perfect, some dependence is necessary. Dependence is a kind of self-behavior, which can be reflected in various aspects. Babies depend on their parents, that's a must. It is inevitable for adults to rely on relatives and friends. Some people are born dependent because they always lack independence; some people are dependent in certain aspects because they are lacking in these aspects; some people are not dependent but are deliberately dependent, especially in the emotional aspect. There is no right or wrong in dependence itself, only severity, pros and cons. I have to rely on my wife to cook, and my wife has to rely on me to fetch water. This is complementarity and dependence. There is no right or wrong. But what if my wife can carry water and I can cook? This is to reduce dependence, and we must also learn to reduce dependence. Dependence is also a habit. If you want to get rid of habitual dependence, you can only solve it by yourself. Over time, you will gradually reduce dependence.