Zhang Kaili believes that it is difficult for adults to achieve emotional freedom. Why can't adults vent their emotions?

Previously, Qiwei said that there was a debate topic: Should adults hide their breakdown? Both sides of the debate expressed their opinions on this issue, and this issue also aroused discussion among netizens. A famous actress Zhang Kaili once said that it is difficult for adults to achieve emotional freedom, so why can't adults vent their emotions? Adults have their own dignity

Adults are different from children. If children are unhappy, they can roll around on the street at will. An adult has received nine years of compulsory education. He wants to gain a foothold in society, so he needs to maintain his own image. In the eyes of the public, an adult who vents his emotions at will is unqualified. Adults cannot bear the consequences of venting their emotions

Adults' pressure mainly comes from work and family responsibilities, and minor emotions also mainly come from these two aspects.

At work, an adult who vents his emotions at will is naive and unreliable. Such a person will lose many opportunities in the workplace, and will be excluded first if there is an opportunity for promotion and salary increase. Lose. Therefore, an adult must be an emotionally stable employee in the workplace.

In families, adults often play an important role. They are an important pillar of the family. Once emotions are vented at will in the family, it will destroy the atmosphere of the entire family. To the elders, they may be unfilial children, and to the children, they may become terrifying parents. These behaviors that cannot control emotions will bring a lifelong psychological shadow to the children.

So various factors restrict them. They cannot vent their emotions at will and can only hide all kinds of breakdowns in their hearts.

For adults, what is more important is whether they can shoulder family and social responsibilities. Emotions are often a neglected part. But emotions are extremely important to everyone. If you cannot vent your emotions in time, it will cause depression and affect your health. So no matter what, adults still have to find appropriate ways to vent their emotions.

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