How do those colleagues who have more thoughts get along at work?

How to get along with scheming colleagues at work?

The workplace is not a friend's field. Colleagues often "know people but don't know their faces." Some thoughtful and scheming colleagues always hide their motives deeply, control their emotions, set up a "game" with a long time span and many clues, and patiently and thoroughly change their competitors.

Once you understand that the other person is thoughtful and scheming, you can do the following things to ensure that you are not calculated and used.

1. Say three points.

You are lucky if you haven't met that kind of thoughtful and scheming colleague. If you are not only surrounded by such people, but also calculated by them, you must be very angry.

Every time I wait for myself to be calculated, I often have a feeling of "eating dumb losses". The reason is that I trust others, know everything about everyone and treat my colleagues as friends. Finally, in the seemingly ordinary chat, too much "effective information" was exposed, and then it was caught by the heavy-minded people.

For example, if you are an office worker, you are the first person to get the news of the leader's itinerary, official arrangements, the latest work plan and so on. If you can't keep your mouth shut, you are likely to fall into other people's conversations intentionally or unintentionally and unconsciously "leak". Once the blame is pursued, a hundred schools of thought contend, and jumping into the Yellow River cannot be washed away.

Therefore, in the workplace, talking less and doing more is the most correct way to open.

2. Keep your distance.

Once you see through other people's eyes and minds, it is equivalent to putting yourself in a "confrontation" stage of fighting each other. Neither of us dared to act rashly, but kept watching carefully, looking for opportunities and striving for "winning once".

A scheming person is good at calculating, gossiping and discrediting others. Therefore, as a heartless person, once you "fight" with them, you will often suffer.

The best way is to stay at a respectful distance and keep a sufficient distance. This kind of distance includes both physical distance and psychological distance.

3. Focus and work. The biggest card to deal with people with heavy minds is professional ability, and their work performance is far ahead.

Even if you are smeared once or twice and robbed of credit, every move is perfect and praised by everyone. The main leaders have to change their attitude, be good to you and win you over by means of promotion and salary increase. This is actually to lay a solid foundation for your promotion.

When you concentrate on your work, on the one hand, your time will be filled with work, and you have no mind to care about the ugly face and sinister intentions of a heavy-hearted person. On the one hand, with the improvement of business ability, performance is more prominent, attention is getting higher and higher, and more outstanding people will gather around. In retrospect, I will only think that those who are heavy-minded, like buffoons, are simply not worth mentioning. Naturally, they drew a line with them.

Therefore, instead of trying to prevent their pranks, it is better to try to improve yourself. When you are better than them, they naturally dare not provoke you easily.