What if menstruation speaks ill of me behind my back?

Seeing is believing, but hearing is not. Don't trust him as long as you don't see it with your own eyes and hear it with your own ears. There are many people who catch ants and fight now, and there are also many people who make trouble. Don't hurt your family and let outsiders see the joke. If there is such a thing, you have to make way, because he is an elder, at the right time and place, take the initiative to talk to him, and everything will be very happy at home!